Joe Santagato

But like, what could you get from that situation?

Are you capable of getting to the point of like, even though that I was the safest option and I was taking care of her and I was nicer, I never cheated on her.

I never scream at her.

I clean the house and I do whatever.

Maybe you're boring though.

And that's fine.

Sure.

But like, it's on you in some capacity.

Because even if you are, let's say like a boring guy or it's like super vanilla and it feels like every day is predictable and whatever, and she got bored.

It's okay to admit that like, okay, that's something that happened to me.

It doesn't mean that you have to change because if you don't want to, you don't have to.

But at least know your involvement while still, you can still go like, fuck you.

But then you have to move on with your life.

It already happened.

Like there's no reason to not think about it and get something from it.

That's why like everyone looks back at them like, well, I don't know about everyone.

I don't know how you did in school.

But like a lot of people that I know have like looked back in like high school or whatever and be like, bro, I wish I like tried harder because then I could, you know, blah, blah, blah.

It's sort of like one of those things where it's like you're already presented the situation.

The bad thing already happened.