John Assaraf

If I have a financial problem right now, if I have a business problem, a sales problem, a marketing problem, an employee problem, a husband problem, wife problem, a kid problem, can I, if I was serious and committed to a resolution, can I right now, like literally in five minutes, come up with some solutions? Yeah. Yeah.

If I have a financial problem right now, if I have a business problem, a sales problem, a marketing problem, an employee problem, a husband problem, wife problem, a kid problem, can I, if I was serious and committed to a resolution, can I right now, like literally in five minutes, come up with some solutions? Yeah. Yeah.

Yeah, so solutions exist, but they don't exist for the people who are focusing on all the negative stuff and allowing their feelings to control their thinking and their focus and their awareness and their whining and bitching and complaining about the problem more than they're focusing on the solution when the solution exists. And this is what I call responsibility.

Yeah, so solutions exist, but they don't exist for the people who are focusing on all the negative stuff and allowing their feelings to control their thinking and their focus and their awareness and their whining and bitching and complaining about the problem more than they're focusing on the solution when the solution exists. And this is what I call responsibility.

So you're either reacting or you're responding. Most people react, react, react, react, react, react, and reinforce. React, reinforce, and recreate more of the same. And you may not be aware that you're doing it, but that is what you do because we repeat patterns. Why am I learning this at 43? because we have a stupid system, but that's why I started my company, Neurogym.

So you're either reacting or you're responding. Most people react, react, react, react, react, react, and reinforce. React, reinforce, and recreate more of the same. And you may not be aware that you're doing it, but that is what you do because we repeat patterns. Why am I learning this at 43? because we have a stupid system, but that's why I started my company, Neurogym.

My Neurogym, you know, is to help people understand that most of us, like, listen, my father was an alcoholic gambler, beat the shit out of me and my brother, not my sister. Money, like, he was no money at the end of every day because he'd go gamble it. I learned money was scarce. I learned, you know, that we were, you know, we were, we always had food on the table.

My Neurogym, you know, is to help people understand that most of us, like, listen, my father was an alcoholic gambler, beat the shit out of me and my brother, not my sister. Money, like, he was no money at the end of every day because he'd go gamble it. I learned money was scarce. I learned, you know, that we were, you know, we were, we always had food on the table.

We always had roof over our heads, but my parents always fought about lack, scarcity, limitation. We were conditioned and trained by teachers in school that didn't understand this or grade school, high school, university. And we never have learned about the latest advancements in the last 10, 15 years

We always had roof over our heads, but my parents always fought about lack, scarcity, limitation. We were conditioned and trained by teachers in school that didn't understand this or grade school, high school, university. And we never have learned about the latest advancements in the last 10, 15 years

about the human brain, and about me, and about you, and about all the different things that we've learned. And so it wasn't anybody's deliberate fault, but it was the society conditioning that caused us to think, feel, and believe certain things. It caused us to have certain skills or not have these skills.

about the human brain, and about me, and about you, and about all the different things that we've learned. And so it wasn't anybody's deliberate fault, but it was the society conditioning that caused us to think, feel, and believe certain things. It caused us to have certain skills or not have these skills.

And either we were fortunate or led into this personal development arena, developing myself. In order to develop myself, I first have to understand a little bit more about myself, right? When I say to, like, who are you? You'd say, well, I'm Ryan. I'd say, well, no, that's your name, right? And I'd say to you, no, no, like, who are you? Oh, this is who I am. I go, well, no, that's your body.

And either we were fortunate or led into this personal development arena, developing myself. In order to develop myself, I first have to understand a little bit more about myself, right? When I say to, like, who are you? You'd say, well, I'm Ryan. I'd say, well, no, that's your name, right? And I'd say to you, no, no, like, who are you? Oh, this is who I am. I go, well, no, that's your body.

Like, we didn't say body is coming to work today. Like we say, you're like, what makes you up? And you can say, well, am I my brain? No, you have a brain. Am I my heart or liver? No, those are pieces of the whole. And most people don't have this healthy, spectacular respect for the creation. I don't care what you believe created you or me or everything, but whatever that is, is in me, is in you.

Like, we didn't say body is coming to work today. Like we say, you're like, what makes you up? And you can say, well, am I my brain? No, you have a brain. Am I my heart or liver? No, those are pieces of the whole. And most people don't have this healthy, spectacular respect for the creation. I don't care what you believe created you or me or everything, but whatever that is, is in me, is in you.

And 300,000 years of resiliency, grit, overcoming, you know, famine, lack of resources, lack of food, lack of water, shelter, everything, we've overcome all of it. It's in your DNA. It's in my DNA. And you think you can't come up with how to make $10,000 a month? Are you kidding yourself? You think you can't build a company when we know every how-to? You want to stop drinking alcohol?

And 300,000 years of resiliency, grit, overcoming, you know, famine, lack of resources, lack of food, lack of water, shelter, everything, we've overcome all of it. It's in your DNA. It's in my DNA. And you think you can't come up with how to make $10,000 a month? Are you kidding yourself? You think you can't build a company when we know every how-to? You want to stop drinking alcohol?

You can do that. You want to stop eating sugar? You want to have a better diet? You want to have a better relationship? All the how-tos available. We're lacking some fundamental frameworks that I believe everybody should be taught. And when we understand these frameworks, and it starts with having a real understanding of, and a humble understanding, right?

You can do that. You want to stop eating sugar? You want to have a better diet? You want to have a better relationship? All the how-tos available. We're lacking some fundamental frameworks that I believe everybody should be taught. And when we understand these frameworks, and it starts with having a real understanding of, and a humble understanding, right?