John Delony

Cool.

Great.

And we had this shared value of fidelity and monogamy.

We had this shared value of fill in the blank, all of your shared values.

This is who we're going to be.

And then a couple years in, she comes to you and says, hey, actually,

I was kind of thinking we could open this relationship up and have sex with more people.

What do you think?

I want to get away from the identity conversation and from the straight and queer conversation.

I want to get away from that a little bit to the hurt guy that's sitting in front of me whose wife just said, I have been exploring my identity and I have come to the realization that I don't think that you're enough.

I want more.

Because that to me sounds like the pain point.

And as a supportive guy, you're trying to hold up, okay, I've created a safe space.

There's identity discussions.

There's all sorts of things on the queer spectrum.

I want to get beneath that to the guy that just has heartbroken because his wife said, eh, you're not enough.

I'm thinking I want more.

I don't think it's the values conversation, brother.

I think it is.

Your wife looked at you and said, I want somebody else.