John Delony
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Podcast Appearances
I want you and some.
or I've quote unquote discovered myself and realized, man, if I could do this over, I wouldn't have done this with you, but I'm stuck with you now, can we add somebody else?
So if that's the case, now let's, again, let's take off the radioactive part, the part that gets the internet all fired up.
And let's just say I've been married for 23 years and I've said some stupid things that upon further examination, I didn't really mean, or I didn't mean them in the way they came across.
What is it about this situation that you're thinking?
Yeah, but I think I'm out.
My wife has said things that hurt me that upon further reflection, she's like, I didn't mean it like that.
That's not what I said.
I know I said those words, but that's not what I meant.
And it hasn't occurred to me.
I'm out.
So for you, you heard this and then you heard like the, that's not what I meant.
I'm sorry.
What is it about this moment in time in your relationship with this person that you're saying, yeah, I can't go any further.
And give me, and you've probably heard me say this on the show a million times.
I always say couples have to be aligned in their values, but they can be all over the place with their beliefs.
That's fine.
Right.
What value has shifted?
What, give me another value.