John Delony
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
And so what you would say in this position is, hey, we've been talking for three months.
I'm all in on you.
And my experience, I'm struggling with the path forward.
I want you to trust me again.
I want to help meet your emotional wants and your emotional needs.
I've worked hard to change.
And my experience is I don't know the path back to trust.
The story I'm making up about that is, is you're expecting me to read your mind and I can't do that.
And the other story I'm making up is you don't really want to get back together.
Yeah.
How I feel about that is I'm heartbroken.
I have a hole in my stomach because I know I did you wrong and I'm trying so hard.
Yeah.
Right?
And that pushes all of the truth on the table.
You own all of it.
I'm owning my experience.
I'm owning the stories I'm making up about you, about us, about me.
And I'm owning how I feel about it.
And then I've got hands open.