John Delony

Or would he say, oh man, I tried.

Yeah, you can't wear that jacket.

Okay.

When it comes to what hurts my feelings or what is offensive to me or what, forget offense, what I'm not interested in hearing, if somebody has the courage to say, hey, I don't think that's funny or I don't think that's accurate or that's not a conversation I want to engage in, and somebody's response is, oh, you're just too, then what they're trying to get from that conversation is a sense of power over.

And that's not marriage.

Marriage is being with, not over.

Do you feel confident that you've been clear about, hey, I've seen a shift in you and I don't think these things are funny and it's not because I'm extra sensitive.

It's not because I'm, or maybe I am extra sensitive.

Who cares?

I get to be that.

But I don't want these jokes in my house.

I don't want these jokes around me and I don't want this kind of language and talk and mean spirit around my kids.

No.

He's already said, I'm not doing that again.

And so it's less about this thing.

Most of the time, here's what happens.

He drops some inappropriate or rude or mean spirited thing out on the table.

And in some level, it's to get a rise out of the room, right?

He gets the rise and the rise he gets is your pushback.

Well, he thinks he's right.