John Delony

And you might have to look at him and say that I have made up those stories about you.

And then y'all get to do this one magic thing.

Decide this question.

How do you want this home to feel when you walk in?

You know the best way to learn how you can set up a home where he feels at peace?

Ask him.

Not try to imagine it and go around and try to solve it like you had to do with your parents.

Right.

And he might say, oh my gosh, plop down on the couch with me and watch a show every once in a while.

Right?

Okay.

Why do you think he's lying to you?

I actually think you think he's lying because you have to reckon with you married a pretty good guy, a guy that you loved, and loving somebody has gotten you hurt your whole life.

And you're not at peace in your home and you don't know what to do next.

And my guess is he could quit nicotine and start working out.

And over time, that would become an issue with you.

I'm making up something.

Yeah, I know.

My guess is your search for peace, you're outsourcing that to other people.

It's y'all's job to create peace for me from the inside out.