John Mark Comer

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2,639 appearances 13 recordings 1 series first heard May 2026 last heard 7 Sep

John Mark Comer’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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Yeah.

Second mistake that a lot of us make is we don't own our part.

So for clarity, we made it sound like, you know, what to do if one person, if you are 100% guilty and the other person is 100% innocent.

How often does that happen to you?

Well, it happens to me a lot, but I'm a work in progress.

Most of the time, relationships are rarely like that, 100%, 0%.

As the saying goes, it takes two...

To tango, there's a lot of truth in that.

There are situations where there is a good guy and a bad guy.

There is a perpetrator and a victim.

But let's be honest, there are not a lot of situations that fall into that category.

We want to think of this person as 100% evil and I'm 100% good.

This person was at fault, I'm not at fault.

This person is the perpetrator, I'm the victim.

But as Alexander Solzhenitsyn so famously said, the line between good and evil runs straight down the middle of the human heart.

And by the way that he said that about his captors in the gulag of Siberia under communist Russia.

And most of the time, it's not 100-0, it's more like 70-30, or 60-40, or 59, or 51-49, and you think they're 51 and they think you're 50, whatever.

Most of the time, it's a lot messier.

The key is just to own your part.

Even if your part, in my case, it's usually only about 5%.

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