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Jonathan Haidt

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Habits and Hustle
Episode 447: Jonathan Haidt: Smartphones and the Anxious Generation - What Parents Need to Know

Yeah, that's right. And so heterosexual relationships are hard enough. Boys and girls are different on average. The kind of the problems that come up in relationships in marriage therapy are often very gendered and very common across the decades. There are just some natural mismatches between the way men and women are in conversation, et cetera. Okay, that's the way it's always been.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 447: Jonathan Haidt: Smartphones and the Anxious Generation - What Parents Need to Know

Now add in that the girls are much more anxious, fragile, and defensive. So that's going to lead to more conflicts. Add in that the boys are more isolated, autistic, hard to make eye contact, have even worse social skills and worse social perception. How are boys and girls going to get together and do the hard work of dating and falling in love and staying together? It's looking pretty grim.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 447: Jonathan Haidt: Smartphones and the Anxious Generation - What Parents Need to Know

Now add in that the girls are much more anxious, fragile, and defensive. So that's going to lead to more conflicts. Add in that the boys are more isolated, autistic, hard to make eye contact, have even worse social skills and worse social perception. How are boys and girls going to get together and do the hard work of dating and falling in love and staying together? It's looking pretty grim.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 447: Jonathan Haidt: Smartphones and the Anxious Generation - What Parents Need to Know

Now add in that the girls are much more anxious, fragile, and defensive. So that's going to lead to more conflicts. Add in that the boys are more isolated, autistic, hard to make eye contact, have even worse social skills and worse social perception. How are boys and girls going to get together and do the hard work of dating and falling in love and staying together? It's looking pretty grim.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 447: Jonathan Haidt: Smartphones and the Anxious Generation - What Parents Need to Know

oh but don't worry technology will rescue us you're lonely here create an ai girlfriend you can oh you want her to have these measurements tell us the measurements what color hair do you want her to be flirty brainy slutty whatever you want so of course the boys are going to be going for this and you know the girls as well because do you want someone who actually listens to you instead of bat bragging and boasting all day long yes please so

Habits and Hustle
Episode 447: Jonathan Haidt: Smartphones and the Anxious Generation - What Parents Need to Know

oh but don't worry technology will rescue us you're lonely here create an ai girlfriend you can oh you want her to have these measurements tell us the measurements what color hair do you want her to be flirty brainy slutty whatever you want so of course the boys are going to be going for this and you know the girls as well because do you want someone who actually listens to you instead of bat bragging and boasting all day long yes please so

Habits and Hustle
Episode 447: Jonathan Haidt: Smartphones and the Anxious Generation - What Parents Need to Know

oh but don't worry technology will rescue us you're lonely here create an ai girlfriend you can oh you want her to have these measurements tell us the measurements what color hair do you want her to be flirty brainy slutty whatever you want so of course the boys are going to be going for this and you know the girls as well because do you want someone who actually listens to you instead of bat bragging and boasting all day long yes please so

Habits and Hustle
Episode 447: Jonathan Haidt: Smartphones and the Anxious Generation - What Parents Need to Know

We're going to have the sexes getting their gratification from AI, and that means not much in the way of marriage, sex, and children.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 447: Jonathan Haidt: Smartphones and the Anxious Generation - What Parents Need to Know

We're going to have the sexes getting their gratification from AI, and that means not much in the way of marriage, sex, and children.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 447: Jonathan Haidt: Smartphones and the Anxious Generation - What Parents Need to Know

We're going to have the sexes getting their gratification from AI, and that means not much in the way of marriage, sex, and children.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 447: Jonathan Haidt: Smartphones and the Anxious Generation - What Parents Need to Know

Okay, but because you were one of the first to read it, it came out 11 months ago. Try it again in two months. What I'm saying is, okay, this is actually a good way to end. You know, I hear myself talking about doom and gloom. I hear these mega trends are horrific.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 447: Jonathan Haidt: Smartphones and the Anxious Generation - What Parents Need to Know

Okay, but because you were one of the first to read it, it came out 11 months ago. Try it again in two months. What I'm saying is, okay, this is actually a good way to end. You know, I hear myself talking about doom and gloom. I hear these mega trends are horrific.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 447: Jonathan Haidt: Smartphones and the Anxious Generation - What Parents Need to Know

Okay, but because you were one of the first to read it, it came out 11 months ago. Try it again in two months. What I'm saying is, okay, this is actually a good way to end. You know, I hear myself talking about doom and gloom. I hear these mega trends are horrific.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 447: Jonathan Haidt: Smartphones and the Anxious Generation - What Parents Need to Know

So the problem, this is, you know, I think this is one of the biggest problems we face, certainly at the level of global warming, any other issue you want to put up there. This is a global change in humanity, okay? But I'm actually really optimistic. And here's why. The book came out March 26th of last year, and it spread like wildfire around the world. And legislators read it.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 447: Jonathan Haidt: Smartphones and the Anxious Generation - What Parents Need to Know

So the problem, this is, you know, I think this is one of the biggest problems we face, certainly at the level of global warming, any other issue you want to put up there. This is a global change in humanity, okay? But I'm actually really optimistic. And here's why. The book came out March 26th of last year, and it spread like wildfire around the world. And legislators read it.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 447: Jonathan Haidt: Smartphones and the Anxious Generation - What Parents Need to Know

So the problem, this is, you know, I think this is one of the biggest problems we face, certainly at the level of global warming, any other issue you want to put up there. This is a global change in humanity, okay? But I'm actually really optimistic. And here's why. The book came out March 26th of last year, and it spread like wildfire around the world. And legislators read it.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 447: Jonathan Haidt: Smartphones and the Anxious Generation - What Parents Need to Know

And just to give you one example, in South Australia, one of the Australian states, the premier of that state, his wife was reading the Anxious Generation book in bed. And she said to him, Peter, you've got to read this book, and then you've got to do something about it. And so he did, he read the book and he said, oh my God, we've got to stop this.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 447: Jonathan Haidt: Smartphones and the Anxious Generation - What Parents Need to Know

And just to give you one example, in South Australia, one of the Australian states, the premier of that state, his wife was reading the Anxious Generation book in bed. And she said to him, Peter, you've got to read this book, and then you've got to do something about it. And so he did, he read the book and he said, oh my God, we've got to stop this.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 447: Jonathan Haidt: Smartphones and the Anxious Generation - What Parents Need to Know

And just to give you one example, in South Australia, one of the Australian states, the premier of that state, his wife was reading the Anxious Generation book in bed. And she said to him, Peter, you've got to read this book, and then you've got to do something about it. And so he did, he read the book and he said, oh my God, we've got to stop this.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 447: Jonathan Haidt: Smartphones and the Anxious Generation - What Parents Need to Know

And he commissioned a report and they came up with really good legislation. And then the whole country of Australia adopted it. And Australia is gonna raise the age to 16. And in Australia and in the US and in the UK, it's totally bipartisan. because politicians, governors, presidents, everybody, they have children, they've all seen it.