Jordan Harbinger

Come on, dude.

Now that we've talked about all this, I'm sitting here trying to figure out, do I just have thicker skin or am I completely in denial about how hurtful all of this actually was?

I honestly don't know the answer.

I know.

I have a feeling there's a certain range of hurtful behavior that's survivable because kids can be super brutal.

We all need to learn how to recover from it.

Everyone gets mistreated to some degree.

But I also know that I didn't have it as bad as other kids.

And it's also got me really questioning, like, oh, it's kind of mean to Richard Rowe.

I wonder if, does he remember that?

Is he like,

Jordan Harbinger terrorized me as a kid.

And I'm just like, ah, I used to poke fun at that guy.

Am I the bully?

Is that the problem here?

I would be heartbroken.

I would be shattered if somebody told me that was me.

That's why I didn't notice it, because I was the perpetrator, not the victim.

So I guess I can't necessarily assume that this bullying isn't having a real impact on her son.

But I think it might be good for her to make room for the idea that he's more resilient than she might think.