Jordan Harbinger

A lot.

A lot.

First of all, I'm very sorry that your wife has struggled with some very difficult things over the years.

The tragic assault, OCD, the struggle with intimacy, everything that brings up.

It's just a lot to work through for both of you.

Like I said, though, man, I'm so heartened by your lens on all this.

Really, I am.

I know it's been hard.

But I'm sure that having a spouse who's patient and understanding in all these ways that you are, I'm sure that's made a huge difference to her.

You've gone to therapy.

You've listened.

You guys have grown.

And along the way, I assume you've also invested in a foundation together that might allow you guys to have these bigger conversations one day.

But you're right.

Coming right out and being like, are you gay?

I mean, not completely off limits, but...

Look, I'm sure you'd broach the topic in a loving and respectful way, but man, that's a delicate conversation.

I don't envy you here.

It might also not yield the best results if she's still grappling with some shame and conflict around maybe being gay and hasn't come to her own conclusions yet.

That's the other thing.