Jordan Harbinger

But even if she can handle this better, if she's just inept and that won't change, then he's going to have to be involved to some degree.

Look, another idea occurring to me here.

You're about to have a baby.

I'm sure you know that that's going to be very full on for a while.

So if your mom can't afford her own place, if she needs to stay with you for a while, what if you told her, look, mom, we could use some help with the baby for the next year or two years or I don't know, six months, whatever.

You pick a reasonable time frame.

So if you're going to stay here, we'd like to ask you to pitch in for a couple hours a night.

watch the baby, help with dinner, whatever it is you guys could use help with.

I know that might sound kind of quid pro quo.

It is quid pro quo.

She is straight up expecting you to give her free plays with free food, free rent, whatever.

At least this way, the arrangement becomes fairer to you guys and she feels more of a sense of purpose being there.

But you need to make the timeframe and expectations very clear.

Once Naomi turns one or two or whatever, we find you your own place.

And you are on the hook for two hours every weekday night and four hours every weekend or every day on the weekend, whatever it is.

And you can't hole up in your bedroom and watch Virgin River every night and come out for food and go back in.

We need you involved.

Yes.

I mean, look, a couple hours of babysitting a night is like, let's say it's $30 an hour, which is...

I don't know, probably a decent wage where he lives.