Jordan Harbinger

Yeah, took the words right out of my mouth.

Once you start imagining you're the man or you could become the man, you're probably not in touch with the man you are right now, who still needs to work hard and struggle and fail and get up in the morning.

So, okay, let's get tactical.

In my view, you cannot know right now that this new passion for becoming a therapist is going to last.

No one can.

We choose our goals.

We set out on a path.

Part of the journey is not knowing what we're going to confront along the way.

Failures, adversity, fear, boredom, as well as joy, growth, expansion.

We just don't know.

And that's anxiety provoking.

But that anxiety, as we keep saying, that might be one of the feelings that you are wanting to avoid.

Yes.

But in light of everything we're talking about, I think there's a much better question you should be asking right now, which is if my passion doesn't last or rather knowing I'm going to go in and out of my passion over time, no matter what I choose, how can I understand this pattern in my life better?

How can I put the right systems and relationships in place to sustain me when things get hard?

Totally agree.

That is such a great question.

I know it's the right question because I've been in this guy's shoes many times myself.

I know what works.

You want some guarantee that your choice is the right one, whatever that means.