Jordana Abraham

He's not writing, he's not creating like a deck.

Right.

He's not doing anything that's like super labor intensive.

It's just a text.

Right.

I mean, I guess what are, like, that's why I think the bar is low, especially until you meet on a date.

She said he was texting her every morning, which she didn't like.

But, like, that is something you should probably then, like, not, you don't have to go out with that person.

Don't engage with it.

Yes.

Then why is he writing looking for a relationship?

Well, can I ask when he says that thing and he says, if it all goes well, can we meet up after?

Is he saying that so that he wouldn't go out if she said no?

Like, let's say she answered and she said, I don't really like to go back or anything after a first date, but I'm still down to go hang out.

Would he still be interested in going out?

I don't know.

Because I do think it's deceptive to write looking for a long-term relationship if you wouldn't go out with someone who said they weren't going to go back with you after a date.

Nervous about what?

Right.

That you wouldn't have sex with me?