Jordana Abraham

Long time listener, first time emailer.

I started listening back in 2018 and was at one of your first live shows in Philly.

I love you both and thanks for making me giggle on a weekly basis.

I'm writing in with a red flag or deal breaker.

I don't think I've ever heard this explanation for being on a dating app on YouUp before, and I'm curious to hear your take.

I'm in my early 30s and moved across the country to the West Coast a few years ago, and I've luckily been able to make a lot of new friends since the move.

One of my new friends, let's call her Amy, has been dating her boyfriend Tom for over a year.

We're not super close, but I always enjoy being around her and we run in the same friend group.

The last time I saw her, we were catching up and she told me they were discussing moving in together in the next few months and how she couldn't imagine her life without him.

How does that even come into the conversation?

We're moving in together.

I can't imagine my life without him.

Yes.

It sounds like braggy.

When unprompted.

Like, who said you needed to imagine your life without him?

Being with anyone else in the entire world.

But him.

Fast forward to a month later, I'm swiping on Hinge, and who comes up?

Tom.