José Andrés
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675 appearances
3 recordings
3 series
first heard May 2025
last heard 11 Feb
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And it's okay to feel responsible because that means you care for those people. But the message here is that we all need to be checking always on each other. That's what friends are for. Obviously for the celebration of your team winning the NBA or having a beer or the birthday or a party or celebrating life or playing darts or just having beers with no plan. What are you doing tonight?
I'm having a beer. I'm joining you. Great. That's great. The celebrations, that's what we're here for. But the true moments of friendship, obviously, are those moments that even you show up when you are not invited because you feel something maybe is off. And it's okay to knock on the door. It's okay to pick up the phone. It's okay to maybe get on a plane.
It's okay to... And obviously, I guess, like you now, Joe, that I'm learning about and gives me joy to see that here another person that really loves Tony. And Eric and myself and so many others around the beautiful life of Tony that we wish we were there, right? Yeah. So I think if anything, that's the, I don't think it's a lesson. It's only, let's always be there for each other.
Let's always be there for each other. And let's all be, even if, especially when we disagree about anything.
Yeah. Yeah.
Just let's be kinder to each other, even on the disagreements. Yeah. Of the people you know and of the people you don't know. Right. Because we are all more connected than we think. And what we say and our opinions, they may be touching and affecting somebody else. Somebody else we know, somebody we don't know. So that's okay to celebrate the good times and agree all the time when we can.
But there'll be moments that you don't or... Moments of sadness and moments of hate. Just be kinder even in those moments of disagreement. If anything, that's the lesson I always take with me. Because you don't know what anybody may be going through. Right. You don't know what anybody may be going through.
Another lesson that I've taken with me is that any conflict that I've ever had with a person, even if I was correct, even if I was right in being angry, even if I was right in the mean things that I said, I never felt good afterwards.
But every good interaction that I've ever had where maybe me and a person disagreed but we came out of it smiling and hugging and we found common ground, then I feel great. Always. Always feel great. There's going to be people that you run into in life that are stubborn and they don't want to avoid conflict. They want that conflict. They feed off of it. They're stupid people.
Not even stupid, they're on a bad path. They're on a bad, they have a bad programming. They have bad, whatever the patterns of behavior that are ingrained in their consciousness, they're unforgiving and they're, you know, they have this way of living their life and it's not a good way. And you know, you can't fix everybody.
So you just gotta, when you encounter those people, you have to be able to filter people out of your life. You have to know like some people you can't interact with. But the people that you can, just try to not have conflict. I don't want any conflict. I'm not interested in it. I'm good at it. I know how to do conflict. I literally do it professionally.
Sure, you can break the neck of anybody.
But even verbal conflict, I'm not interested in it. I'm not interested in physical conflict and I'm not interested in verbal conflict. It's not what I like out of life. What I like out of life is fun and joy and being around interesting people and challenges and doing difficult things and creative things and learning. Learning about myself, learning about other people, learning about life.
Conflict is just a distraction from your own personal demons for the most part. It's a lot of what it is. When you're angry at other people, a lot of times you're really distracting yourself from the things you don't like about yourself. It's a flaw. And I try to filter it out as much as possible in my life. I'm not interested in it.
Yeah, I'm trying to become the best version of myself on that. The second most important word we can always use in our vocabulary, the second most important is thank you. But the most important one is sorry. Because thank you, people have a hard time saying thank you. Me, I try to use the word thank you often. As much as I can.
But because God knows I'm an imperfect man, the word sorry is the one I also try to use as quick as I can.
And mean it.
And mean it.
Yeah, that's the thing. Don't say sorry because you want someone to not be mad at you. Say sorry because you're actually sorry.
And you are doing your best to change your effort or your behavior or the way you raise your voice. But thank you is important. Second most important, most important is sorry. Because it takes, also it takes humility to say sorry.
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