JR

Right. But he wanted to do it.

okay um did you not want to i mean i was open to doing it like but i originally said no okay i got reached out to and i declined i was like that's not something that i want to do our relationship is not that serious to go into like a marriage proposal and because we were very often on in our relationship and i think that's something to to note him and i had not been dating for two and a half years we had known each other for two and a half years

okay um did you not want to i mean i was open to doing it like but i originally said no okay i got reached out to and i declined i was like that's not something that i want to do our relationship is not that serious to go into like a marriage proposal and because we were very often on in our relationship and i think that's something to to note him and i had not been dating for two and a half years we had known each other for two and a half years

okay um did you not want to i mean i was open to doing it like but i originally said no okay i got reached out to and i declined i was like that's not something that i want to do our relationship is not that serious to go into like a marriage proposal and because we were very often on in our relationship and i think that's something to to note him and i had not been dating for two and a half years we had known each other for two and a half years

And we had been actually dating for about nine months before going on the ultimatum. And within those nine months, we had broken up maybe five, six times. Context we did not know. Exactly. So it's very different than being in a solid two and a half year committed relationship. It's very true. But we had this love that was undeniable. And we had loved each other.

And we had been actually dating for about nine months before going on the ultimatum. And within those nine months, we had broken up maybe five, six times. Context we did not know. Exactly. So it's very different than being in a solid two and a half year committed relationship. It's very true. But we had this love that was undeniable. And we had loved each other.

And we had been actually dating for about nine months before going on the ultimatum. And within those nine months, we had broken up maybe five, six times. Context we did not know. Exactly. So it's very different than being in a solid two and a half year committed relationship. It's very true. But we had this love that was undeniable. And we had loved each other.

We had said we loved each other before we even actually started dating, dating. So we did love each other for like maybe two years or so. But it was very, you know, off and on. But yeah, I mean, we obviously both agreed to it. And yeah, there were moments where I was just like frustrated where, you know, I'm like, you wanted to do this.

We had said we loved each other before we even actually started dating, dating. So we did love each other for like maybe two years or so. But it was very, you know, off and on. But yeah, I mean, we obviously both agreed to it. And yeah, there were moments where I was just like frustrated where, you know, I'm like, you wanted to do this.

We had said we loved each other before we even actually started dating, dating. So we did love each other for like maybe two years or so. But it was very, you know, off and on. But yeah, I mean, we obviously both agreed to it. And yeah, there were moments where I was just like frustrated where, you know, I'm like, you wanted to do this.

I think that frustration was more so stemming from the the overall like attitude that we both kind of had, but mostly him had moving into it.

I think that frustration was more so stemming from the the overall like attitude that we both kind of had, but mostly him had moving into it.

I think that frustration was more so stemming from the the overall like attitude that we both kind of had, but mostly him had moving into it.

was so like unbothered was very we were very silly and playful about it it was not like this serious somber thing where we're like oh my god like we're gonna break up like he was really chill about it and almost to the point where it was like a little bit bothering to me because I'm like okay is you know Does this not like freak you out?

was so like unbothered was very we were very silly and playful about it it was not like this serious somber thing where we're like oh my god like we're gonna break up like he was really chill about it and almost to the point where it was like a little bit bothering to me because I'm like okay is you know Does this not like freak you out?

was so like unbothered was very we were very silly and playful about it it was not like this serious somber thing where we're like oh my god like we're gonna break up like he was really chill about it and almost to the point where it was like a little bit bothering to me because I'm like okay is you know Does this not like freak you out?

I just had felt pretty like taken for granted in the relationship. And so then I think moving into it, the reason why I'm like, you know, what's going on is because all of a sudden it switched because it got real because we didn't know how intense it was going to be. And I think his real heart and like feelings for me showed up like the second we got there.

I just had felt pretty like taken for granted in the relationship. And so then I think moving into it, the reason why I'm like, you know, what's going on is because all of a sudden it switched because it got real because we didn't know how intense it was going to be. And I think his real heart and like feelings for me showed up like the second we got there.

I just had felt pretty like taken for granted in the relationship. And so then I think moving into it, the reason why I'm like, you know, what's going on is because all of a sudden it switched because it got real because we didn't know how intense it was going to be. And I think his real heart and like feelings for me showed up like the second we got there.

But you guys have to understand before we got there, it was not like that. But that wasn't because he didn't love me or actually want to be with me. It was just because he was running from his own things or whatnot. So it was like you were avoidant in the relationship. And I moved into the experience with that like all over me. And then I was just like, wait, why is this all of a sudden flipped?