Julia Dhar

And she bought this like beautiful bag for herself last year.

She works so hard.

And I asked her the other day, I was like, why do you never bring that out?

She's like, well, it's a bit too flashy.

But I feel like for her, it was like, well, I've gotten to this point where this is like a marker of success for women or for people that I know.

So I have to participate.

But then it also feels like contrary to my experience.

deeper identity this is so fascinating it's not quite me that's so interesting also I'm like thinking about what I'm wearing that I need to move on like you can see and I'm I'm wearing like all one brand and I when you were saying that I was like oh my gosh I just thought I really liked that person yeah yeah but maybe it's what they represent could be wow okay

Let's actually talk about what I brought you here to discuss.

What we came here to talk about.

Which we need to bring you back to just talk about fashion psychology.

Anytime.

Let's talk about bad habits and where bad habits come from.

A good starting point might be to say...

There are no bad habits, or perhaps it's not very helpful to call something a bad habit and just condemn it right off the bat.

Of course, there are habits that are more or less destructive or damaging to our health or our relationships or the way we show up in the world.

But even then, just saying this is a bad habit is maybe not very helpful.

But what we can assume when someone says, I have a bad habit,

vaping, not eating as healthily as I would like, not exercising as often as I might want to.

What they mean is there is something about the way I operate that I want to change.