Julia Shaw

You can have lots of beautiful people around.

myself certain possibilities you know I think it's more that I want people to feel like they have a choice

And that's the important thing.

And I think all we see is monogamy everywhere, all the time.

And it's this one version of how we can live our lives.

And I think it's not the only.

And I think that having conversations with your partner as well, especially early, it's harder to bring this up later on.

But to have it early and say, you know, how do you actually want to structure your life?

And I think how do you want to structure your relationship as part of that?

And especially if you're going to commit yourself to one person, one primary person or one exclusive person, that's part of it.

And I think then you also don't have to lie to each other if you do cheat, or you can talk about it in a different way if you feel like there's a certain capacity to be honest about whom you're attracted to and how that might impact your life more generally.

It can be.

I mean, all relationships can be difficult to navigate.

I think it's the same.

It's and the same risk factors.

If you're going in because you're trying to fix something about yourself, you're going to have a hard time.

Much like if you're dating a single person, if you're trying to fix something and this is going to be the solution to the thing that you feel is broken about yourself, it's going to be hard.

But if you're going in coming from a good place and you're going, you know, I want to be open and I want to connect with people and I want to love people or person, then you're going to have a better time.

I think so.

You can love people in different ways, and also you can love lots of people deeply, I think.