Julianna Pillemer

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128 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Feb 2026 last heard 24 Feb

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The Last Show with David Cooper · The Psychological Burden of a Massive Social Media Audience · 24 Feb 2026 podcast

I don't care about that.

I'm just going to do what I want to do, which is I think the sort of reaction that many people would think, okay, that's what you should do.

You should just not worry about the audience.

That doesn't work because if you're a creator for your profession, you have to care about your audience.

You're never not going to care about your audience, you know?

So they developed three strategies that

The first is sort of the most intuitive.

I think we call it distancing from audience input.

They would set firm boundaries around when they engage with the audience.

While initially they were reading every comment, checking every DM, kind of constantly looking at it, they would say, okay, I'm going to check this in eight hours, right?

I'm going to have one day a week where I just create for myself.

I don't even go on Instagram.

Or they might have, if they're getting a lot of hateful comments,

Um, we had a couple of people who said, I just have my husband read them, right?

Like I don't even read my comments, but I still want to know the beautiful things that people are saying to me.

So I have someone else filter them for me.

So that's kind of the first strategy.

Um, the second strategy is I think a little more counterintuitive.

It's actually going deeper into the comments themselves.

We call this depersonalizing the critique.

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