Julie Bogart
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404 appearances
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first heard Jun 2023
last heard Jun 2023
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Like even with a reluctant 16-year-old.
16-year-old, what I always say is wait until you're in an argument and just start writing down all their points.
Wait, what else what's the other reason you want to play video games for six hours?
Keep going.
Oh, oh, and what else?
And then read that back at dinner and have the conversation.
Start putting their thoughts in writing and they'll know you value their thoughts.
I mean, I'm no psychologist, so there's probably like clinical definitions for those ideas.
But I would say this perfectionism, well, let's this is what I say.
You're welcome to argue with it.
I think perfectionism is passed down in the family.
I think most children who are perfectionists have parents who are a little bit too perfectionistic themselves.
And the best cure for that is to blatantly stop.
The recommendation I make to lots of moms is the only way your child knows that you mean it when you say, Really, I don't mind if you misspell, I don't mind if you forget punctuation.
It's okay if you just make mistakes, is to leave the lunch dishes out for three hours after you ate while you go and play with Legos.
It isn't the words you say, it's the life you lead.
You have to show that you don't hold yourself to a perfectionist standard if you want your child to believe you aren't holding them to one.
And I'll give you a little self-report on this.
My kid's father.
And I both are composition instructors and freelance writers.
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