Julie Bogart
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404 appearances
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first heard Jun 2023
last heard Jun 2023
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If you're worried about your child who's a writer, sit down at the table with your child and set a timer for five minutes.
And both of you write, you should have to take the same writing risk as your child.
And then don't read it aloud and don't read theirs.
And turn this into a time where there's candles and cookies and writing.
And nobody reads anyone's writing.
Eventually they settle down because they start to
Yeah, for sure.
A lot of times we treat resistance like it is defiance of authority.
And so then a parent doubles down on this notion that the child needs to obey or cooperate.
You know, my generation called
for obedience.
The millennials are a little bit more manipulative than that.
They call it cooperation, but it's the same thing.
It's the adult has the agenda and the child has to do the agenda of the adult.
The resistance is not about you.
Ever.
It's about what makes the child feel good.
So when the child says, I don't want to write, they're not thinking to themselves, how can I show my parent I'm defying their authority?
They're thinking, how can I avoid doing a painful thing?
So if we reframe resistance as a child trying to protect that small, fragile self that is starting to emerge, we can actually lend it more support.
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