Justin Garcia

What do they look like?

Who are they surrounded by?

What are they eating or drinking?

What is their voice like if you can hear it?

So there's a lot of sensory information that's happening when we have those gut responses.

And you're right.

There's something deeply biological about that.

It's just this energy you feel drawn to someone.

So it's all those things.

We don't necessarily know which one is which.

So I say that to say you can see that person across the room and feel drawn to them.

And it could be a lot of things that are going on that draws you to them.

And one is not necessarily better than other.

I think that's one of the big takeaways when we go through the studies on attraction is what...

You know, what's the most important one?

Is there some test, you know, and I put test in air quotes, that we should be paying attention to?

Is it smell or voice or feel?

Not necessarily.

I think there's a lot of different things that we are attracted to in a partner.

But the other part of that is this idea, I think, at love at first sight.