Justin

then the child will suffer that same thing.

So I think you have your head in the right place and you're just putting the pieces together to get there.

Obviously not an ideal situation, but I think you're doing what you can with the cards that you've been dealt.

Yeah, otherwise it's gotta be a full family affair forever and you'll never get what you want and you'll always be controlled.

Because the second you would let any of that slide, it's a slippery slope.

It's gonna be that way forever and it's gonna get worse and worse.

It'd be like you coming in and being like,

hey guys, have you changed the diaper?

And I wouldn't let your child do this anymore.

And, oh, you're doing this wrong.

And I think you'd be better if you did this.

And we'd look at you like.

Two or three.

Oh, I was gonna say, and then if we came to you with a question or, hey, we'd really like help with learning how to do this, you'd be there in 10 minutes.

And that's, speaking from zero experience, that's what's being a true in-law or parent

to your child that has a child, or even if they don't have a child.

A long while.

Do you remember it, Jer?

Like yesterday.

Everyone talks about the honeymoon phase, right?