Kail Lowry

Because most people, when you kind of override your own intuition, you end up in toxicity, right?

I feel like at a certain age, your body can notice it, right?

When you were like a kid, like toddler, whatever, I think most toddlers would be like, they want to do things for themselves, right?

They're not going to share like, that's my toy, even though you're not playing with it, right?

People would say, that's narcissism, right?

But I just feel like...

You're not playing with that toy.

Can he play with it?

No.

You know, that's mine.

So it really just depends on the age, right?

I think typically you want to kind of monitor it around 10, 11, 12, because like after eight, because that's when your personality really starts to kind of center in and you kind of see who you really, you kind of see who you're becoming.

Right.

And I feel like that's the age you can course correct it, you know, because I've talked to like,

the people that I talk to that are, or that could be narcissists, they vary in age.

So I feel like around about the age of 10, 11, 12, you kind of start them.

I mean, you can kind of tell earlier, maybe tell earlier.

I tell people to just, if you, if it's possible, get your kids into some type of play therapy, right?

Because like, it's, it's good to, even if you're just co-parenting, it's good to have a separate voice that isn't mom or dad that they can trust.

I agree.