Kallia McFarland

And then I had to have life-saving surgery where they took out my whole large intestine.

And I didn't know at the time, but I was made surgically sterile because they saved my life.

But I didn't know that at the time until later on.

And then I had to have a full hysterectomy in 2016.

Yeah.

So it's a different story.

It's really different.

I don't know if it's any different for a man when you're married or something like that and people go, oh, when are you going to have kids?

And all of a sudden you kind of, there's this expectation in society that everyone thinks that you're going to have kids.

And the easiest way to shut the people down is, I can't.

And they go, oh, oh, sorry, sorry.

Because, yeah.

But it took me years to learn that.

Years to learn.

that it's okay to be open about this because it's not talked about.

Yeah.

Yeah.

And you do.

Like there was a point in my life where I thought I was going to be this old lady with my dogs.

That's what I thought until I met my husband now and he has two children.