Kanesha Baynard
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624 appearances
2 recordings
1 series
first heard Nov 2016
last heard Nov 2021
Kanesha Baynard’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Not so much why it happened or when but
how we could have upped our protocol and things like that because then there's gonna be the guilt, there's gonna be the disappointment.
on everybody involved and that just does not help move it move it forward.
And so I said the conversation is
Let's go back to what we agreed to.
Why didn't we do that in the moment?
How are you feeling?
Like, be honest about it.
And then if it happened again, what do you think?
How can we make sure it happens that way?
And it's not so much of like you didn't do what I told you to do.
I wanted you to be more clear about it because everybody panicked and it happens.
But the parents can be clear in
My expectation is this and this is why as opposed to saying you're not helping me.
That's usually what parents wanna say.
Parents wanna lash out because we are protective, we are
Mama bears at times, but that's not going to help the situation.
If you need to really lash out, I always encourage people to write it down in your journal exactly the way you want to say it, all the words you want to use, all the language you want to have.
And then leave it there because then you can use that information to have the calmer conversation because all your emotions matter.
If you need to get them out, I say get them out, but it's not always within the conversation when you're trying to strengthen the protocol around supporting yourself as a parent and supporting your child with the grandparents.
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