Kanesha Baynard
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624 appearances
2 recordings
1 series
first heard Nov 2016
last heard Nov 2021
Kanesha Baynard’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Then when you add grandkids into the mix
the grandparents start to see the adult kids in a different role where they are actually in charge, they're doing the same things, but perhaps in a different way that the grandparent once did.
And the grandparents might start to learn something about themselves as parents.
They might start to learn something about how parenting has changed, how all these different schools of thought or ways to parent are
acceptable because at one point in time there really was only quote unquote one way to do it because we didn't have the internet to share.
We didn't have a lot of talk shows talking about parenting.
We didn't have a lot of parenting books.
We didn't have vlogs about it.
And it really can be an assault to the parenting system.
For grandparents to see all these new and different ways because no one wants to be obsolete, no one wants to learn that they did parenting wrong, no one wants to see that.
Everything I used to do as a parent has been thrown out.
And
Oftentimes a grandparent might not understand that they're feeling this way, a sense of loss, a sense of regret.
A sense sometimes of confusion or perhaps it's anger.
And then when conversations happen between the grandparent and perhaps the adult child, they're not always coming from a neutral stance.
There's some emotion attached to it.
Or it might be some anger, confusion, some type of emotion just coming out sideways and then that gets confusing.
And then the roles and the boundaries sometimes are breached.
And a lot of times people have just got to stop right there, let it all out, lay it bare before they can get started and having a really healthy
Grandparent is caregiver or multi generational household.
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