Kate Darling
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first heard Oct 2022
last heard Oct 2022
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And it certainly wasn't appropriate at that time.
Okay, that's a good question because obviously there's a lot of neurodivergence at MIT and everywhere.
And obviously we need to accept that people are different, that people don't understand social conventions the same way.
But one of the things that I've learned about neurodivergence is that women are often...
expected or taught to mask their neurodivergence and kind of fit in.
And men are accommodated and excused.
And I don't think that being neurodivergent gives you a license to be an asshole.
Like, you can be a weird person and you can still learn that it's not okay to lick someone's arm.
Oh, they're always cowards about how they treat anything.
They just try to make the problem go away.
But that said, I think he should have left the mailing list.
Well, that's probably true also.
But I think what bothered me, what always bothers me in these mailing list situations or Twitter situations, like if you say something that's hurtful to people or makes people angry and then people start yelling at you.
Maybe they shouldn't be yelling.
Maybe they are yelling because, again, you're the only point of power they have.
Maybe it's okay that you're yelling.
Whatever it is, it's your response to that that matters.
And I think that I just have a lot of respect for people who can say, oh, people are angry.
There's a reason they're angry.
Let me find out what that reason is and learn more about it.
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