Kate Morris

So I am 30 and all of my friends are having children.

And it's like the best time ever, like watching your friends that you've grown up with, like become moms.

It's like a whole other thing.

But I am still so undecided about having children and very much so.

And maybe we could do a whole episode on this if you guys want to speak about this, because I feel like it isn't a topic that a lot of people speak about.

You kind of see content where it's

There's people that are childless by choice or child free by choice, love that for them.

And then there's people who were like, I was always destined to be a mom, but there's no one in the middle who's like, I actually don't know what I want.

Like, do I want kids?

Do I not want kids?

And I feel like I fall into that category.

Like some days I wake up, I'm like, fuck, no, not interested.

Other days I'm like, oh, maybe I like, could I be cute preggo?

Like whatever.

But I feel like I have had to engineer my environment around this because a very big fear for me is like losing my identity, not having enough time.

And because I am very career focused, I have had to really limit the amount of people or information that I consume online about this and only follow women that I inspire to be like, who are founders of businesses, running multi-million dollar companies with children.

And really looking like on social media, we never know behind closed doors that they really are balancing and loving it all.

And I've even started to clock that where I'm like following content where, you know, people are saying it's really, really hard and don't get me wrong.

I'm not a mom.

So it's probably fucking hard girls.