Kate Morris

It's not about you taking the spotlight, but maybe it's just about opening that conversation.

And then your friend can be like, oh, okay, why?

And then maybe you're feeling jealous, not necessarily because your friend's gotten the promotion, but maybe your friend in the past hasn't supported or celebrated you.

And you guys could actually build a deeper friendship or you could use this as a building block for deepening your connection.

I always think about it from the lens of relationships.

If you started dating Ben and your previous relationship, I don't know, something crazy happened in your previous relationship.

you'd probably have a conversation with Ben being like, hey, I don't have a lot of trust because X, Y, and Z happened in my past relationships.

So if I do X, Y, and Z, it's not necessarily you, it's because I'm still working through my own shit.

Why can't we do that in friendships?

Yeah.

You know what I mean?

100%.

So I just, yeah, I think having a conversation and not being blamey, like you got the promotion and you didn't take into my feelings into account or anything crazy.

It's just like, hey, this is my shit that I'm dealing with, but I wanted to vocalize it.

So you know how I'm feeling.

feeling and then hopefully you guys deepen your your friendship and if you do let us know in the comments 100 and on that note we're going to wrap up today's episode thank you so much as always if you're over on our spotify we love you make sure you rate this podcast five stars leave a comment if you're on our youtube we also love you so much make sure you like comment subscribe turn on the notification bell and we'll see you next week for our final episode of our mini series or let's talk friendships let's do it we love you love you bye

You need to learn how to listen to listen and not listen to speak.

To text someone and say, how are you?

You're never going to be too busy for that.

Sometimes it's not going to be fucking easy or convenient.