Kate

And Kev's like... Kev is, it's interesting because I'm, Ryan and I have this happen all the time. where I'll go, did you ask your mom X, Y, Z? And she's like, nope. And I was like, well, why not? And she's like, I know that would have been the first thing that you did Sterling, but sometimes what she might say could be so uncomfortable that I don't really want to cross that bridge to begin with.

Like I'm afraid of what I might hear and it may be uncomfortable. And I get the sense from Kev, it's like, if he wanted to tell me, he would have told me. And then I should just sort of leave it alone.

Like I'm afraid of what I might hear and it may be uncomfortable. And I get the sense from Kev, it's like, if he wanted to tell me, he would have told me. And then I should just sort of leave it alone.

Like I'm afraid of what I might hear and it may be uncomfortable. And I get the sense from Kev, it's like, if he wanted to tell me, he would have told me. And then I should just sort of leave it alone.

I'm curious, like, how do you guys tend to operate in terms of your own negotiation of, like, if there's a question that you have about something in the world with an individual, are you apt to ask that question, even if the person may seem reticent? Or do you just say, like, in their own time, they will divulge what they want to divulge?

I'm curious, like, how do you guys tend to operate in terms of your own negotiation of, like, if there's a question that you have about something in the world with an individual, are you apt to ask that question, even if the person may seem reticent? Or do you just say, like, in their own time, they will divulge what they want to divulge?

I'm curious, like, how do you guys tend to operate in terms of your own negotiation of, like, if there's a question that you have about something in the world with an individual, are you apt to ask that question, even if the person may seem reticent? Or do you just say, like, in their own time, they will divulge what they want to divulge?

You know, so my mom – and she's not probably wrong – Because I would ask my mom these questions early on. She would tell me things about how she would go on the road with these bands and how she had to like, you know, I kept a pistol. Like my mom was like, oh yeah, she didn't play around. And if I ever asked her, what did you do with the band? And she's like, don't be nosy.

You know, so my mom – and she's not probably wrong – Because I would ask my mom these questions early on. She would tell me things about how she would go on the road with these bands and how she had to like, you know, I kept a pistol. Like my mom was like, oh yeah, she didn't play around. And if I ever asked her, what did you do with the band? And she's like, don't be nosy.

You know, so my mom – and she's not probably wrong – Because I would ask my mom these questions early on. She would tell me things about how she would go on the road with these bands and how she had to like, you know, I kept a pistol. Like my mom was like, oh yeah, she didn't play around. And if I ever asked her, what did you do with the band? And she's like, don't be nosy.

And I was like, you're the one who's talking about it. I just want to know like what kind of stuff. Well, it's because she didn't want to talk, you know, she's a lady. And you're left to infer whatever you're left to infer. So, but I will always ask for the specific question and she's like, none of your business. I was like, well, quit talking about it, Holly. You know what I'm saying?

And I was like, you're the one who's talking about it. I just want to know like what kind of stuff. Well, it's because she didn't want to talk, you know, she's a lady. And you're left to infer whatever you're left to infer. So, but I will always ask for the specific question and she's like, none of your business. I was like, well, quit talking about it, Holly. You know what I'm saying?

And I was like, you're the one who's talking about it. I just want to know like what kind of stuff. Well, it's because she didn't want to talk, you know, she's a lady. And you're left to infer whatever you're left to infer. So, but I will always ask for the specific question and she's like, none of your business. I was like, well, quit talking about it, Holly. You know what I'm saying?

So I actually find, what is it that I find? Because this is probably slightly different than you guys. And I find like you guys could probably employ it too. I find, by and large, that when you are vulnerable with people and willing to share aspects of your life that folks don't frequently share, that they are prone to reciprocate in kind.

So I actually find, what is it that I find? Because this is probably slightly different than you guys. And I find like you guys could probably employ it too. I find, by and large, that when you are vulnerable with people and willing to share aspects of your life that folks don't frequently share, that they are prone to reciprocate in kind.

So I actually find, what is it that I find? Because this is probably slightly different than you guys. And I find like you guys could probably employ it too. I find, by and large, that when you are vulnerable with people and willing to share aspects of your life that folks don't frequently share, that they are prone to reciprocate in kind.

Thank you.

Thank you.

Thank you.

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