Kathleen Post
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170 appearances
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first heard Jun 2025
last heard Jun 2025
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Oh, this really touches my heart.
yeah i high school is such a tricky time but i also feel like there's so many options this is such a wholesome dear toaster it's so awesome and we need to help i just want to give her a hug through the phone but um you still have so much time ahead of you and i feel like there's so many ways to get involved in high school that are just like low stakes like sports clubs i
I don't know, there's so much. And I do think that, like you said, you just have to make a choice to put yourself out there. Like put your head down, like just. You just have to do it. Yeah. It's gonna be uncomfortable, it's gonna be awkward, but you just gotta.
Yeah, I think everyone in high school is, insecure and looking for friends, looking for their identity. So even though you might feel like, oh, I'm the only one who doesn't have friends or I'm shy or I've just turned in on myself. There's so many other people who feel that way. And I think people are much more receptive than you think.
I mean, you could even start your own club and invite people to join. I don't know. I did that in high school. I started a club. What club? It was a fundraiser for Haiti because this was like 2011. Yeah. there was all this damage from the hurricanes in Haiti. And so I started this club and we would like do different. We would like make baked goods and sell them.
And it was it was so random, but it was so fun. And like I wasn't didn't necessarily do it to like make friends. But that's like a random example. But there was like a club I was in where we would play like what's that banana grams game? Yeah. Claudia was in the club like that. She loved that. It was so random, but there's so much you can do in high school.
I have this network. Yeah. Okay. Well,
I am a terrible singer but when I was a sophomore I joined show choir and like they let anyone in like I didn't even have to audition but like what I'm saying is it's not too late even as a sophomore you know like you can do something new as a sophomore or a junior you don't have it's not like oh I missed my freshman year so now I'm like locked into this it's like you can try something new as a sophomore and I met so many people through that and I was awful but it was so fun yeah don't give up like you can do it it takes a little bit of hard work but it will be we're
Love you.
tricky so i i know some people who do the separate bank accounts we've never done that um and from the start but also we got married so young right like we were 22 like what money were we combining right you know what i mean but like i i actually really like that and i feel like it set us up for a really good foundation um so i don't know i could this is only coming from my perspective of only ever having a shared bank account um i just i could see so many
ways that this could yeah it's like i don't even know what's scary if he has like all this money and he's spending it and like he's not sharing it with you or if he has all this debt and he's like hiding it from you yeah is he hiding good stuff or bad stuff yeah and who's making more money right now i don't know maybe she's better off keeping it separate if that's yeah
Yeah. I will say that like there could be a lot of fights that come from having a joint account. I mean, when we first got married, I came into the relationship with debt from college and we were on like a really strict budget. And I remember my husband would like check in on me and be like, what did you spend for $2.33 at Target? And I was like, I was picking up donuts for my coworkers.
And it was just, I felt like I was, you know, had all these tabs and he's a numbers guy, he's a finance guy. And like, that was kind of what we needed at the time. So like, it was fine. And like, we're good now. But it was, it was very stressful. So like, maybe it's better to keep it separate. I don't know, I think there's probably so many different opinions on this, but I like the combo idea.
Yeah, I've not had an issue with it.
Yeah, but we're both putting money in there. Right, right, right. Yeah. Now, if I was going to make a very large purchase, I would probably be like, hey. Heads up. Just a heads up. Here's some thoughts. But at this point, we've been married for so long. I also kind of know what is worth mentioning, like what that dollar amount is.
So I'm not going to go buy a new car or something without talking about it first. But I have financial freedom to do the things I want to do. But I think it also just depends on everyone. I
everyone's work situation right it's only one person working and like so it's their money technically and like then you are just beholden to how they want to deal with it i do think even if he wants to keep things separate there should be a conversation where you at least see everything put all the cards on the table are you in debt how much are you making like let's at least be transparent about it before you get married to this guy that maybe he's got a gambling addiction or
Yeah. I do think money causes like the most fights in marriages or it's one of the things that causes the most fights. So my advice would be to. It's tricky. So, yeah, I wouldn't just be like, oh, he's a piece. It's all good. Like I would.
Like, is it because he doesn't want someone keeping tabs on him or I don't know, but I do think it's something worth getting to the bottom of.
Yeah. And I do think it also maybe could be coming from his parents or like pressure from someone being like, Hey, don't someone who had like a bad experience, but every couple's different. Yeah.
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