Kelly Killoren Bensimon

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74 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Dec 2024 last heard Dec 2024

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Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin · Winning in Real Estate with Kelly Killoren Bensimon · 31 Dec 2024 podcast
But some people really like that. Like some people are like, great. Like at least I know what I'm getting. Like, you know, I mean, again, like we're talking, you know, honestly, like some women just really like that. I just that was just never like I wasn't raised like that. If I told my father, by the way, I'm marrying this guy and he's going to give me X amount of dollars per month.
My father would be like, I spent all this money on this great education. for you to think like that.
He would not be happy. No, he passed and he would not be happy. He would want me to like have a partner and to build Together. Yeah, he would want me to build. I think that there has to, like, you know, women have to be able to be doing something that really, like, ignites them and makes them feel whole. So that the relationship where it started off is, you know, it ignited for a reason.
And then all of a sudden, you know, you go into this transaction, you sign this piece of paper, this, you know, stone goes on your finger, and all of a sudden the dynamics change, right? You know, and I think that people get lost. And I think it's not about the money. I think it's about they just get personally just emotionally lost.
I mean, I mean, I know we're talking about money for you, but I mean, I think of it more like an emotional way where, you know, I have a lot of empathy for both women and men who are, you know, get lost in relationships. And I don't want someone to be in a relationship with me that feels like that. You know, for someone like me, I just, you know, I've waited so long to be with the right person.
And, you know, I've met a lot of really great guys, but they're definitely not the right person for me. And, you know, I just want to have respect for my partner. And I want him to, you know, do everything that he wants to do. And I want to do the same.
Fair. Yeah, it's give and take. Listen, I mean, we're talking about finances, but I think that like, and there's nothing wrong with being in love. There's nothing wrong with that. You don't have to get married for money. You don't have to get married because you need to like move into an apartment.
It's like, it's so nice to have someone like you as a role model who can talk to women about finances because it's something that's daunting. And I've had to deal with it all my life. I don't talk about it. I don't, you know, I know a lot, you know, like a lot of the housewives are like, I made all this money and they're throwing it around and
And all these women like are watching and they're just kind of like, what? What about me? Like, I can't even pay bills. And you know what I mean? So it's hard. It's hard to see all that. So I just want women to be excited about what they have and who they are.
And, you know, to like recognize that there are checks and balances and the money that goes in, the money that goes out and just to try to be mindful of what they're doing.
Right. Right. But I mean, at the same time that you shouldn't be like, you know, be, you know, I need to be rich in order to be, you know, to feel good because, you know, there's so many more things and, you know, to be happy. And, you know, I've had so many iterations of my life and I've been through so much, you know, so many like peaks and valleys.
And I don't feel I still to this day believe in love and believe in like taking care of myself and taking care of other people.
It's just what I tell myself today. It's just like, you know, there's a little for me, a little for Uncle Sam, and then a little to put away. I'm always like thinking of my girls, like what we're going to do for them and just like just to be balanced about it. Because like, I mean, what you were saying before about like, you know, to live under your means, some people just can't do that.
Some people just, you know, it's like, you know, my father came from absolutely nothing. And he gave us so much education, integrity, you know, a healthy mindset. And he lived way above his means. way above his means. But he created, like, we were his legacy. So whatever he spent was, well, we were his stocks. It's just kind of like a different kind of way of investing. Way of investing.
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