Kelly Roach

Right. So if you want something different in your life, then that probably means that it's going to require you to do things that don't come naturally or learn new things that make you uncomfortable or put you in a position where you have to fail a whole lot of times before you figure out how you're going to have success. And I think, you know, that's why lots of people have big dreams.

Right. So if you want something different in your life, then that probably means that it's going to require you to do things that don't come naturally or learn new things that make you uncomfortable or put you in a position where you have to fail a whole lot of times before you figure out how you're going to have success. And I think, you know, that's why lots of people have big dreams.

But don't do anything about them because it requires a behavior change and behavior change requires being disciplined, being uncomfortable and failing a lot in the process. Right.

But don't do anything about them because it requires a behavior change and behavior change requires being disciplined, being uncomfortable and failing a lot in the process. Right.

Congratulations. That's so wonderful.

Congratulations. That's so wonderful.

what you might what you should be doing i guess does that make sense is that does that play for you yeah i i speak to this all the time so i think you know there's two big things and i think part one is everything that you just described it's that people are setting goals based on societal norms and expectations

what you might what you should be doing i guess does that make sense is that does that play for you yeah i i speak to this all the time so i think you know there's two big things and i think part one is everything that you just described it's that people are setting goals based on societal norms and expectations

of their peers, their industry, their network, their associations that are being projected onto them versus them deciding what they want. And I'll talk more to that in just a second and deep belief that I have around that. But the second part of it is, I think people don't ask themselves what the implications of what their dreams will cost are going to be.

of their peers, their industry, their network, their associations that are being projected onto them versus them deciding what they want. And I'll talk more to that in just a second and deep belief that I have around that. But the second part of it is, I think people don't ask themselves what the implications of what their dreams will cost are going to be.

And that's a very, very important question to ask because dreams come with a price tag and the bigger the dream, the bigger the price tag.

And that's a very, very important question to ask because dreams come with a price tag and the bigger the dream, the bigger the price tag.

And if you're not willingly contractually obligating your heart to investing the price that your dream costs, then you're just going to live a life of frustration because you're never going to act in alignment with the dreams that you desire, which means you're never going to accomplish them. You're always going to feel like a failure, always going to feel like you're falling short.

And if you're not willingly contractually obligating your heart to investing the price that your dream costs, then you're just going to live a life of frustration because you're never going to act in alignment with the dreams that you desire, which means you're never going to accomplish them. You're always going to feel like a failure, always going to feel like you're falling short.

And that's because, A, they weren't your dreams to begin with. So you were never going to do them because they weren't in alignment for you. They weren't even your dreams to begin with. And B, you never stop to ask yourself, what is the sacrifice that will be required in order to do this? And anything that's worth anything in your life is going to come with immense sacrifice.

And that's because, A, they weren't your dreams to begin with. So you were never going to do them because they weren't in alignment for you. They weren't even your dreams to begin with. And B, you never stop to ask yourself, what is the sacrifice that will be required in order to do this? And anything that's worth anything in your life is going to come with immense sacrifice.

And that's what makes it worthwhile. And that's how you learn the skills to achieve and sustain success is by going through that molding and maturing process of becoming the person that can not just accomplish that thing, but but hold it. Right. And I think there's also a faith perspective on that. And this is just my personal, you know, purview.

And that's what makes it worthwhile. And that's how you learn the skills to achieve and sustain success is by going through that molding and maturing process of becoming the person that can not just accomplish that thing, but but hold it. Right. And I think there's also a faith perspective on that. And this is just my personal, you know, purview.

But, you know, as a business strategist for many years, you know, I think that each of us were put here with a very specific calling from God. I think we each have a mission. I think every day that we wake up, that's God saying to us, you know, I need you to be here for one more day because there's something that you haven't contributed to this world yet that you're here to do.

But, you know, as a business strategist for many years, you know, I think that each of us were put here with a very specific calling from God. I think we each have a mission. I think every day that we wake up, that's God saying to us, you know, I need you to be here for one more day because there's something that you haven't contributed to this world yet that you're here to do.