Kelly

Kara asks, am I the problem for wanting to get my own place instead of moving to a place with my boyfriend?

We always wanted to get a place together, but he doesn't hold jobs and is laid off right now.

and doesn't seem to be seeking another job.

I've decided I want a place on my own and maybe we can live together later down the road.

I probably could have told him, but now he's saying I'm self-centered because I want my own place for now.

I agree.

Yeah, I had nothing to add.

I think it's kind of silly to move in before you're married anyway.

Thank you.

Yeah, thanks so much, guys.

Well, about a week ago, I basically noticed some random charges on our credit card bill.

It was from a hotel that we've stayed at, like, months ago, but not when it was charged, if that makes sense.

Like, it was a different date.

Yeah.

and i asked garrett my husband about the charge and his response was like oh i forgot my boss flew in for some meeting and needed his place so that was his explanation and you know in the moment i was like that makes sense but honestly there was something like about the way he explained it it felt so rehearsed like um i barely got the question out before he just like

said his like answer, you know, kind of perfectly, if that makes sense.

That felt off to me.

You know, I mean, I guess I should say I'd never noticed him do that before.

So, no.

Yeah, exactly.