Ken Coleman

And I said, well, we've never even discussed finances in our year of dating, so I'm not comfortable doing that.

Good for you.

Well, yeah.

So the day before we were leaving to go out of state to go get married, he said, well, I want you to come down to the attorneys and blah, blah, blah.

Anyway, I just said, well...

And then he said, well, don't you trust me?

And I said, this is ridiculous.

I said, we've never even talked about finances.

And when we were dating, he was throwing money around like he had all this money, but I didn't know what he had or didn't have.

Anyway, so anyway, fast forward, I didn't sign it.

I'm like, I'm not signing a blank piece of paper.

That's ridiculous.

And so anyway...

So fast forward six years, finances have always been kept a secret.

He gives me a small allowance.

He puts in a joint checking account to cover, you know, whatever, small things on the side.

He pays the main bills.

You know, I pay the groceries and other small things.

But anyway, so now he, fast forward, he wants a divorce because I've finally put my foot down and said, I'm not going to live in secrecy anymore.

You either become transparent because...