Kim Holderness

What if we just like, let them all be who they're going to be?

And like, what would the natural state look like?

Yeah, because if everybody else is putting their kids through SAT, like a summer-long SAT prep course, then I guess I have to too because my kids' scores are going to be compared to their scores.

Like it's a good question.

A thousand percent.

And it is definitely a me problem.

It's a me problem.

I think, listen, both of our kids are very driven.

Very driven on different things.

But it is...

I'll just be totally honest.

Like in the schools we go to, if, and we live in North Carolina, which is like the basketball capital of the world.

If you're not playing year round, hardcore basketball, like you can't get on a, and there, there are incredible athletes at this school that can jump and they're just, they can't make the team because they don't play your own basketball.

I know.

I love it.

I love it.

He loves that role anyway.

And I have to say, maybe if he were our first born, I would have said, well, what does this mean for trying out and making, you know, getting play time on a varsity team?

Guess what?

It doesn't matter.