Kim

They're not going to stop inviting you because you didn't come to one or two things.

Zach and I are calling it the year of balance.

So whenever we're trying to navigate something, we're like, oh, it's the year of balance.

And then we can make that decision from there because it is such a true thing.

And also to this, like real friends don't track your attendance.

And if they are acting like that, perhaps they're not as true as you think they are.

Okay.

We are turning around.

We're just taking a little short walk today since we do have some other stuff today.

But it is nice to get your steps in in the morning, I think.

My friend group is fun and I've known them for a while, but they're also a little toxic.

They drink a lot and there's a lot of gossiping.

I don't always feel amazing with them or comfortable.

How do you walk away from a social circle you've known for a while?

I feel these connections would be weird to let go of.

But they're still going to gossip at lunch.

I feel that sometimes with the gossiping, you're right, sometimes it can be fun.

Trust me, I love spilling tea.

But I also think that sometimes it can be really, as she said, toxic when people are... Yeah, once it gets mean, then I don't approve of it.

When people are complaining constantly, saying bad things about other people, saying bad things about you to your face, it is not fun to be around.