Kristin Cavallari

but it could even be for, you know, I mean, it can be for small stuff too.

I just think we always know we are our own best compass.

I've definitely said that before on the podcast.

So I think if I could equip my kids with one thing and be like, this is the one, the one thing that you need, I would probably say, trust your gut.

Always tune into yourself and trust your gut because it will never steer you wrong.

Okay.

And this is probably, I know I said this was in no particular order, but I don't know, maybe subconsciously I put it in this order.

So another really big one and another one that I've said, because I learned this at a young age, so I've said it multiple times, is no matter what you do, no matter what, you will not please everyone.

So live your life for you.

Do what makes you happy.

Because

No matter what, someone will not agree with what you're doing.

I don't care who you are, how big or small of a thing it is that you're doing, where you live.

I don't care what the situation is whatsoever.

There's always going to be someone that doesn't agree with you.

And that's why, if you know that, if you know that no matter what decision you make, someone in this world will not agree with you, then why not make every decision based on what you want to do?

And I think that's where a lot of people...

get into trouble because I think a lot of people in the world are people pleasers.

And so instead of listening to themselves about what they want to do, they ignore what they want to do.

And they start to think, well, what would he want me to do?