Kristin Cavallari

What would she want me to do?

What would my boss want me to do?

What would my husband, you know, you start putting other people above the

yourself.

And that it just gets tricky.

And then also what that does is it hinders your authenticity.

And I think, well, I know the highest vibration that we can all have, by the way, I told you guys, I'm still going to work in the spiritual woo woo stuff because that's just who I am.

I did have a lot of DMS being like, no, don't stop doing the spiritual stuff.

it's who I am.

So it's of course just innately going to come out.

And this is what I'm saying is the highest vibration is authenticity.

And so in that sense, the best thing we can do for ourselves, for the planet, for everyone around us is be 100% authentic.

And so the way to do that is to start getting in touch with yourself, figuring out what you want or don't want in this world, who you really are, what lights you up.

And so starting to live a life for you with what makes you happy, your wants and dislikes and, you know, all the things, that's the most important thing.

And I think as a parent, modeling that for our kids is really important, too.

And again, instilling that in our kids of, listen, you're going to get out there into the real world and you're not going to be able to please everybody.

So you need to do what makes you happy and be so comfortable in your own skin and love yourself so much that

you aren't afraid to be authentic.

Because I think that's what happens.

And that's why people shy away from authenticity.