Kristin Cavallari

Being with a narcissist will make you a shell of who you are. It will make you go crazy and question your whole reality. It will offer a level of stress that you didn't even know you could experience. So when I tell you this is a blessing in disguise, you have to realize that and you have to focus on that. you have to say, thank God.

Being with a narcissist will make you a shell of who you are. It will make you go crazy and question your whole reality. It will offer a level of stress that you didn't even know you could experience. So when I tell you this is a blessing in disguise, you have to realize that and you have to focus on that. you have to say, thank God.

Thank God I got out because narcissists do not change and they are scary. And And it's, you just, this is a blessing in disguise. And I realize you're angry and it is like, how can someone go from love bombing you so hard and like so obsessed with you to then just ghosting you? And I'll tell you why, because the love bombing stage is not fucking real.

Thank God I got out because narcissists do not change and they are scary. And And it's, you just, this is a blessing in disguise. And I realize you're angry and it is like, how can someone go from love bombing you so hard and like so obsessed with you to then just ghosting you? And I'll tell you why, because the love bombing stage is not fucking real.

That's what they do to try to like butter you up in a sense to then be able to manipulate and control you. And I would wonder if maybe something happened where you had to set a boundary or stand up for yourself or something. And they realized because I think a lot of times these narcissists, when they realize, like, I can't fuck with I this is going to be too much of a challenge.

That's what they do to try to like butter you up in a sense to then be able to manipulate and control you. And I would wonder if maybe something happened where you had to set a boundary or stand up for yourself or something. And they realized because I think a lot of times these narcissists, when they realize, like, I can't fuck with I this is going to be too much of a challenge.

Well, they do love a challenge. But if it's like they like if you're too headstrong and just too strong of a person, they will bounce because they love to manipulate and control. So other ways to tell if someone is a narcissist is if they take no accountability for anything in their life. So the same guy who love bombed me and then fucking overnight was like, wait, what? Oh, we're not compatible.

Well, they do love a challenge. But if it's like they like if you're too headstrong and just too strong of a person, they will bounce because they love to manipulate and control. So other ways to tell if someone is a narcissist is if they take no accountability for anything in their life. So the same guy who love bombed me and then fucking overnight was like, wait, what? Oh, we're not compatible.

He also, when asking about all of his previous relationships, everything was everybody else's fault. If a guy or girl cannot take any responsibility for any of their relationships and it's everything is everyone else's fault, that is a red flag. So zero accountability is a major, major red flag. And again, the love bombing, a guy coming on really fast, I have learned in my adult life is...

He also, when asking about all of his previous relationships, everything was everybody else's fault. If a guy or girl cannot take any responsibility for any of their relationships and it's everything is everyone else's fault, that is a red flag. So zero accountability is a major, major red flag. And again, the love bombing, a guy coming on really fast, I have learned in my adult life is...

It's not normal. And I think that... I don't think everyone who comes on strong is a narcissist. In fact, I had a guy who I had to say to, what is the point of rushing into this? Let's just take a step back and go slow. And I had a guy be very receptive to that. Very receptive and be like, no, you're absolutely right. Like... those guys do exist.

It's not normal. And I think that... I don't think everyone who comes on strong is a narcissist. In fact, I had a guy who I had to say to, what is the point of rushing into this? Let's just take a step back and go slow. And I had a guy be very receptive to that. Very receptive and be like, no, you're absolutely right. Like... those guys do exist.

And I've had another guy who I was like, what is the point of rushing into this? And he had every excuse in the world about why we needed to rush into that. He is a narcissist. Didn't know it at first. And again, because I have a lot of experience with narcissists, I thought I could fucking figure them out right away. But they're so good at hiding it in the They say all the right things.

And I've had another guy who I was like, what is the point of rushing into this? And he had every excuse in the world about why we needed to rush into that. He is a narcissist. Didn't know it at first. And again, because I have a lot of experience with narcissists, I thought I could fucking figure them out right away. But they're so good at hiding it in the They say all the right things.

They will even bash narcissists. So you're like, oh, well, then you must not be one. But no, they are. Those are the big things. A guy who wants to like buy you stuff, like a lot of stuff, like shower you with gifts in the beginning, I also think is a red flag. that also might not go hand in hand with narcissism, but I actually, in my experience, it sort of does.

They will even bash narcissists. So you're like, oh, well, then you must not be one. But no, they are. Those are the big things. A guy who wants to like buy you stuff, like a lot of stuff, like shower you with gifts in the beginning, I also think is a red flag. that also might not go hand in hand with narcissism, but I actually, in my experience, it sort of does.

And so again, these things do not necessarily mean that they are a narcissist. I think the word gets thrown around a lot these days, but I also think there are a lot of narcissists in the world for whatever reason. And so it is something that, you know, we do need to be hyper aware of and women can be narcissists too, obviously, but

And so again, these things do not necessarily mean that they are a narcissist. I think the word gets thrown around a lot these days, but I also think there are a lot of narcissists in the world for whatever reason. And so it is something that, you know, we do need to be hyper aware of and women can be narcissists too, obviously, but

I think there's a misconception about narcissism is that narcissists are just full of themselves. And that is not it at all, actually. If you've had any experience with a narcissist, then you know narcissists are actually the most insecure people on the planet.

I think there's a misconception about narcissism is that narcissists are just full of themselves. And that is not it at all, actually. If you've had any experience with a narcissist, then you know narcissists are actually the most insecure people on the planet.