Kristin Cavallari

I think you have to

Continue to do what you normally do.

I think that's just the most important piece to stay busy, stay grounded.

And, you know, yeah, I think that's it.

Isn't that the truth, though?

Oh, my God.

These men say they love an independent woman and and then they just slowly start to chip away at that and just take it all away from you.

That is a very real thing.

And that does definitely exist.

And I also think there are men out there who do love independent women who are actually secure and can let you shine and do your own thing.

Those are harder to come by, though, but they they do exist.

And I do think as us single women are in the dating world, I think it's important for us to know that there is an abundance of good men out there.

I think we sort of naturally get in this rut of saying men suck.

Why are all men like this?

Why is it so hard to find a good guy?

And if that's our attitude, well, then, yeah, we're never going to find a good guy.

So I think it's important for us to remember that.

there are really good guys out there.

There really, really are.

I mean, it's the same way a lot of guys will be like, girls are fucking crazy.