Kristin Cavallari

I am definitely dating to be in relationship.

There is nothing wrong with that.

In fact, you should be saying that because the whole point of going on dates is to see if you guys are on the same page.

So if you're going on a first date and you're like, I don't know.

Yeah.

I'm just kind of looking to have fun or, you know, just see, see what happens.

Well, the problem is one of two things.

Either the guy sitting across from you is going to go, oh, okay, well, I'm actually... And maybe it's all in his head.

He's going to go, I'm actually looking for someone to be in relationship with.

So then he's not going to take you seriously.

Or B, he's going to say, great, perfect.

I just want to have fun too and see where things go.

And then he's going to put you in that box and he's never going to move you into the dating box or the serious relationship box.

So...

You always have to be very transparent and honest about where you're at.

That is not coming on too strong.

That is exactly what you should be doing in the dating world.

If you're 22, sure, that's different.

Go say whatever the hell you want.

That's different.