Kristin Cavallari

I just do. I think a lot of people settle. And listen, I get it. I'm older now. I have my kids. It's like I can wait. I can wait. I don't need a guy for anything other than just pure happiness. I know not everyone is in that boat, but I, I think everyone should have that. I just do. And that's why I'm waiting until I have it.

I just do. I think a lot of people settle. And listen, I get it. I'm older now. I have my kids. It's like I can wait. I can wait. I don't need a guy for anything other than just pure happiness. I know not everyone is in that boat, but I, I think everyone should have that. I just do. And that's why I'm waiting until I have it.

And I have a couple of girlfriends who waited a long time to get into a serious relationship. Two girlfriends really come to mind who, late 30s, got into their first real serious relationship. And they're both in really solid relationships with great guys that they are wildly attracted to, who are faithful, who are... all the things. They're great guys, but it didn't, it took a while, you know?

And I have a couple of girlfriends who waited a long time to get into a serious relationship. Two girlfriends really come to mind who, late 30s, got into their first real serious relationship. And they're both in really solid relationships with great guys that they are wildly attracted to, who are faithful, who are... all the things. They're great guys, but it didn't, it took a while, you know?

And, um, That's what I mean. I think sometimes to find the best ones, we unfortunately have to filter through a lot of the wrong ones and it takes a little bit longer. And listen, that's not to say, I know some people are able to meet, marry their high school sweetheart and they have the most amazing relationship. Like that's fucking awesome. That was never me.

And, um, That's what I mean. I think sometimes to find the best ones, we unfortunately have to filter through a lot of the wrong ones and it takes a little bit longer. And listen, that's not to say, I know some people are able to meet, marry their high school sweetheart and they have the most amazing relationship. Like that's fucking awesome. That was never me.

That would have been nice or whatever. I'm not even going to say that would have been nice. That's not ultimately actually what I wanted in this lifetime. And I think But I'm happy for those people. I think all of that can exist.

That would have been nice or whatever. I'm not even going to say that would have been nice. That's not ultimately actually what I wanted in this lifetime. And I think But I'm happy for those people. I think all of that can exist.

I'm just saying, I think sometimes for people more like my girlfriends that I'm thinking of, maybe this girl who wrote in this question, for me personally in this phase of my life, I think sometimes it just takes a little bit longer to find these really special guys. And I think that's okay too. Because in the meantime, we can really learn a lot about ourselves and do a lot of work on ourselves.

I'm just saying, I think sometimes for people more like my girlfriends that I'm thinking of, maybe this girl who wrote in this question, for me personally in this phase of my life, I think sometimes it just takes a little bit longer to find these really special guys. And I think that's okay too. Because in the meantime, we can really learn a lot about ourselves and do a lot of work on ourselves.

And and make sure that we're putting out the same type of energy that we want to be attracting in. How long to date before you should know if you want to marry him? So, I mean, I don't think there's any sort of should is relative. I think it just, it depends on the person. Typically, I think people know within the first three months. They say, guys know within the first three months.

And and make sure that we're putting out the same type of energy that we want to be attracting in. How long to date before you should know if you want to marry him? So, I mean, I don't think there's any sort of should is relative. I think it just, it depends on the person. Typically, I think people know within the first three months. They say, guys know within the first three months.

I also sort of feel like girls know too. And that's not to say you don't continue to date, of course, because you want to make sure. And the longer you date, the more tough conversations you have, the more things come up to really test if you guys have what it takes to get through tough times or whatever it may be. And I think by month three, you should have a pretty good idea of...

I also sort of feel like girls know too. And that's not to say you don't continue to date, of course, because you want to make sure. And the longer you date, the more tough conversations you have, the more things come up to really test if you guys have what it takes to get through tough times or whatever it may be. And I think by month three, you should have a pretty good idea of...

thinking, you know, I could potentially see myself spending the rest of my life with this person. I think you have an idea. And that's not to say you go and you get engaged and you run out and you get married, but you know, I think you know. So one guy is ambitious and wealthy and treats me like a queen. The other is sweet and truly cares for me and the sex is incredible.

thinking, you know, I could potentially see myself spending the rest of my life with this person. I think you have an idea. And that's not to say you go and you get engaged and you run out and you get married, but you know, I think you know. So one guy is ambitious and wealthy and treats me like a queen. The other is sweet and truly cares for me and the sex is incredible.

Do I go for stability or do I go for chemistry? Ah. Well, I'm going to say you go for chemistry. I know for women, this is, this is really hard. Here's why I'm going to say chemistry over stability, because at the end of the day, you're not marrying his ambition and his money. I mean, yeah, that lifestyle is nice, but I always, I'm going to go for love over money.

Do I go for stability or do I go for chemistry? Ah. Well, I'm going to say you go for chemistry. I know for women, this is, this is really hard. Here's why I'm going to say chemistry over stability, because at the end of the day, you're not marrying his ambition and his money. I mean, yeah, that lifestyle is nice, but I always, I'm going to go for love over money.

I just do because to me, choosing someone for the lifestyle is empty. I think it can be fun. I think it can definitely be a distraction, but But I think about going to bed with that person at the end of the day and laying in bed talking and having sex with that person. And that to me is what a relationship is in those moments together.

I just do because to me, choosing someone for the lifestyle is empty. I think it can be fun. I think it can definitely be a distraction, but But I think about going to bed with that person at the end of the day and laying in bed talking and having sex with that person. And that to me is what a relationship is in those moments together.