Kristin Cavallari

Go make money your own or go, you know, I don't know, find fun and adventure elsewhere, because I think that's a lonely dead end road. But if you end up with someone who truly cares for you. Like this other guy treats you like a queen. Okay. But you said this other guy truly cares for you. There's a huge difference in those two statements.

Go make money your own or go, you know, I don't know, find fun and adventure elsewhere, because I think that's a lonely dead end road. But if you end up with someone who truly cares for you. Like this other guy treats you like a queen. Okay. But you said this other guy truly cares for you. There's a huge difference in those two statements.

The first one to me is like trophy wife, sort of just like, treats you like a queen for him. Do you see what I'm saying? Like that's about him. That's actually not about you. And the guy who truly cares for you sees you. That's intimacy. That's, that's a real relationship. That's love. And the sex is incredible. Why wouldn't you go with the guy who has, you've got great sex with?

The first one to me is like trophy wife, sort of just like, treats you like a queen for him. Do you see what I'm saying? Like that's about him. That's actually not about you. And the guy who truly cares for you sees you. That's intimacy. That's, that's a real relationship. That's love. And the sex is incredible. Why wouldn't you go with the guy who has, you've got great sex with?

Because sex is huge in a relationship. And I can appreciate how a guy who is ambitious and wealthy is... That's attractive. I would never take that away from a guy. I find that to be very attractive in men too. A successful man is attractive. There is no doubt about it. And that is not a shallow thing to say. I'm sorry. It's just not us. Women think that is attractive.

Because sex is huge in a relationship. And I can appreciate how a guy who is ambitious and wealthy is... That's attractive. I would never take that away from a guy. I find that to be very attractive in men too. A successful man is attractive. There is no doubt about it. And that is not a shallow thing to say. I'm sorry. It's just not us. Women think that is attractive.

Success and power are attractive, but you need to be grounded while also having those things. And you need to be able to be both. You can find a guy who is successful and who is ambitious and who also sees you for you, who you also have great sex with, who you also have chemistry with. Maybe you don't have to choose between the two.

Success and power are attractive, but you need to be grounded while also having those things. And you need to be able to be both. You can find a guy who is successful and who is ambitious and who also sees you for you, who you also have great sex with, who you also have chemistry with. Maybe you don't have to choose between the two.

Maybe this is a way for you to have both and you go, I like all of these. You know, I like a couple of things from the chemistry guy, like a couple of things from the wealthy guy. And now you want to find all of them in one guy. I think that's what this is telling you. And I think you can find that. I think, I think you can, again, it might take longer, you know, but I think that you can.

Maybe this is a way for you to have both and you go, I like all of these. You know, I like a couple of things from the chemistry guy, like a couple of things from the wealthy guy. And now you want to find all of them in one guy. I think that's what this is telling you. And I think you can find that. I think, I think you can, again, it might take longer, you know, but I think that you can.

And I think, but I think ultimately we want someone to see us who, for who we really are. I think that's more important. I do. I think that real chemistry, that real love is way more important than fun and an adventure and lifestyle. And I don't know, money. Maybe that's easier for me to say. I don't know, you know, because money's not an issue for me. And I'm very honest and very real about that.

And I think, but I think ultimately we want someone to see us who, for who we really are. I think that's more important. I do. I think that real chemistry, that real love is way more important than fun and an adventure and lifestyle. And I don't know, money. Maybe that's easier for me to say. I don't know, you know, because money's not an issue for me. And I'm very honest and very real about that.

But I think the money thing is, well, it's temporary. But I know, listen, I know it works for some women. I know some women, that's all they kind of care about. I wonder, I'm not saying this guy is ugly and whatever, but I wonder if, like, I'm always like, okay, so you marry for money, but you still have to sleep with the guy. Like, you have to sleep with the guy.

But I think the money thing is, well, it's temporary. But I know, listen, I know it works for some women. I know some women, that's all they kind of care about. I wonder, I'm not saying this guy is ugly and whatever, but I wonder if, like, I'm always like, okay, so you marry for money, but you still have to sleep with the guy. Like, you have to sleep with the guy.

Like, how could you sleep with a guy you're not attracted to? I could never do that. I couldn't do it. again, to each their own if that's what you want to do. But it sounds like you want more than that. And that's why you're having a hard time choosing. I say go for chemistry. Okay. Just started dating after being married for 11 years. I have no idea how to end a date.

Like, how could you sleep with a guy you're not attracted to? I could never do that. I couldn't do it. again, to each their own if that's what you want to do. But it sounds like you want more than that. And that's why you're having a hard time choosing. I say go for chemistry. Okay. Just started dating after being married for 11 years. I have no idea how to end a date.

God, I love this so much because I've been there so many times and I'm like, fuck, I'm so over this date. But I just, one time I went on a date with this guy in LA and it was just supposed to be drinks. And it was an awful date. And he was fucking he was slamming drinks. I think I had one or two. If it was a five hour date, you guys. Oh, my God. And then it turned into dinner.

God, I love this so much because I've been there so many times and I'm like, fuck, I'm so over this date. But I just, one time I went on a date with this guy in LA and it was just supposed to be drinks. And it was an awful date. And he was fucking he was slamming drinks. I think I had one or two. If it was a five hour date, you guys. Oh, my God. And then it turned into dinner.

And I just like didn't know how to get out of it. And I was like, fuck, I have to wake up early the next day. And I was just like, oh, he was hammered. I was like, oh, no. I think I've gotten better at that, though. But I think it's you just you you could go into the date being like, I have an early morning tomorrow with work. Just, you know, want to throw that out there.

And I just like didn't know how to get out of it. And I was like, fuck, I have to wake up early the next day. And I was just like, oh, he was hammered. I was like, oh, no. I think I've gotten better at that, though. But I think it's you just you you could go into the date being like, I have an early morning tomorrow with work. Just, you know, want to throw that out there.