Kristin Cavallari

But I think if you're dealing, if anyone is dealing with a narcissist ex, it's imperative they know as little as possible about what's going on in your life.

And so, but it can be done, obviously.

Why does this ex need to have any sort of information about you?

You're allowed to get a babysitter and go on a date and he doesn't have to know anything about that.

Or if he does, it's none of his business who you're with.

And that needs to be the message every time you're out, no matter who you're with.

If you're with your mom, if you're with your girlfriends, if you're with a date, it's none of your business.

It needs to be consistent from you every single time.

that can be done.

I actually think it's probably easier to date when your kids are younger and they don't really know what's going on.

I think like I can't get anything past.

I'm not trying to get anything past my kids now, but like my kids are older and my kids know if, well, I also, I tell my kids, I'm very honest with my kids, but I don't get babysitters when I have my kids.

Let's start with that.

I save everything for the weekends.

I don't have my kids, but

I, I just think it would be easier to, when your kids are little, I don't know, I think take advantage of it while your kids are little to go on a bunch of dates because then they become teenagers and they want to know everything.

Ended my engagement and moved out.

Am I insane to try again?

Do people really change?

No.