Kristin Cavallari

The only way anyone ever changes is if they want to change.

However, guys will do and say anything to make it seem as though they've changed.

And when you break up, yeah, they're going to pretend like everything's perfect now all of a sudden.

Look how great I am.

They're going to do everything to get you back.

The only way that people really change is through serious work and if they want to do it.

And that doesn't happen overnight.

Like real healing work, you guys, takes years, years.

And it would be one thing if you saw him starting the process and he was committed to it and you saw baby steps and you saw little things, but you saw that he was committed to the process.

But no one's going to change in a short amount of time.

And clearly things were bad enough that you ended an engagement.

I've been there.

No one is changing that much in a short amount of time.

The things I've seen, okay, from my lens, I'm not saying anyone in particular, don't try to put a name on it.

I'm just saying people don't change.

That's my advice.

You ended it for a reason.

But again, you ended it for a reason.

Should you move on?

Probably.