Kristin Joy Hoadley

I was like, fuck yeah, I'll see you there.

It's, it's, it's a perfect blend of like, not, I've, I've been trying to write a joke about this.

Like, um, there's a sense of confidence you get that's let slowly comes to you hopefully in your thirties.

Yes.

But I can't tell if it's confidence or I just stop caring.

You're just living in the moment.

You care about the wrong things when you're younger, probably.

Yeah.

That's what I am told, like a trick to marriage is knowing which battle to pick.

Yes.

And unfortunately, I love to pick battles.

Yeah.

And I don't love to be right because I'm not right all the time, but I love to be like, hey, excuse me.

But 30s, yeah, that's a good point.

Maybe confidence is...

caring about the right things or caring less or something.

But it's nice.

Not caring is important for any public figure or for comics because a lot of people are not going to like you as a comic.

Statistically, you're not going to win them all.

So I have to look those people in the face sometimes when I'm doing stand-up and know and have this intimate moment of, you don't like me.