Kute Blackson

And that's the pain. Because... When you negotiate with life and negotiate your destiny, to me, that is already living dead. And so there reaches a point in that negotiation phase where we begin to realize, no matter how much I negotiate, it's not changing. I am what I am. I'm an alcoholic. My partner is what they are. This is the situation. It is what it is.

And that's the pain. Because... When you negotiate with life and negotiate your destiny, to me, that is already living dead. And so there reaches a point in that negotiation phase where we begin to realize, no matter how much I negotiate, it's not changing. I am what I am. I'm an alcoholic. My partner is what they are. This is the situation. It is what it is.

And that's the pain. Because... When you negotiate with life and negotiate your destiny, to me, that is already living dead. And so there reaches a point in that negotiation phase where we begin to realize, no matter how much I negotiate, it's not changing. I am what I am. I'm an alcoholic. My partner is what they are. This is the situation. It is what it is.

And so now we start getting into reality. That is a necessary phase. What helps in this phase to really move into reality is the willingness to tell the truth. One of the things that keeps us stuck from truly surrendering are all the lies that we tell ourselves. We stay in relationships that we know aren't right for whatever the reason.

And so now we start getting into reality. That is a necessary phase. What helps in this phase to really move into reality is the willingness to tell the truth. One of the things that keeps us stuck from truly surrendering are all the lies that we tell ourselves. We stay in relationships that we know aren't right for whatever the reason.

And so now we start getting into reality. That is a necessary phase. What helps in this phase to really move into reality is the willingness to tell the truth. One of the things that keeps us stuck from truly surrendering are all the lies that we tell ourselves. We stay in relationships that we know aren't right for whatever the reason.

We work jobs that we know is not the true expression of our soul's purpose. Out of fear, out of safety, out of comfort, kills us inside. And so to me, there is no real surrender. There is no real healing. There is no true transformation without the truth. The truth will set us free. To me, truth is real spiritual practice. Truth is real therapy. Truth is real yoga.

We work jobs that we know is not the true expression of our soul's purpose. Out of fear, out of safety, out of comfort, kills us inside. And so to me, there is no real surrender. There is no real healing. There is no true transformation without the truth. The truth will set us free. To me, truth is real spiritual practice. Truth is real therapy. Truth is real yoga.

We work jobs that we know is not the true expression of our soul's purpose. Out of fear, out of safety, out of comfort, kills us inside. And so to me, there is no real surrender. There is no real healing. There is no true transformation without the truth. The truth will set us free. To me, truth is real spiritual practice. Truth is real therapy. Truth is real yoga.

If we're willing to tell the truth, your entire life will begin transforming. So the question number one to start asking in this phase of acceptance is, what lies am I telling myself? To change reality, you have to see reality for what it is. See it for what it is, accept it for what it is, be with it as it is exactly. Not as you want it to be, not as it could be. This is what it is.

If we're willing to tell the truth, your entire life will begin transforming. So the question number one to start asking in this phase of acceptance is, what lies am I telling myself? To change reality, you have to see reality for what it is. See it for what it is, accept it for what it is, be with it as it is exactly. Not as you want it to be, not as it could be. This is what it is.

If we're willing to tell the truth, your entire life will begin transforming. So the question number one to start asking in this phase of acceptance is, what lies am I telling myself? To change reality, you have to see reality for what it is. See it for what it is, accept it for what it is, be with it as it is exactly. Not as you want it to be, not as it could be. This is what it is.

I have an alcohol problem. This is what it is. I'm in an abusive, toxic relationship. This is what it is. I hate my job. No judgment, reality. The truth will set you free. So what lies am I telling myself? Step one. Sometimes we're afraid to tell ourselves the truth. Because we're afraid, oh shit, if I tell myself the truth, what's the consequence?

I have an alcohol problem. This is what it is. I'm in an abusive, toxic relationship. This is what it is. I hate my job. No judgment, reality. The truth will set you free. So what lies am I telling myself? Step one. Sometimes we're afraid to tell ourselves the truth. Because we're afraid, oh shit, if I tell myself the truth, what's the consequence?

I have an alcohol problem. This is what it is. I'm in an abusive, toxic relationship. This is what it is. I hate my job. No judgment, reality. The truth will set you free. So what lies am I telling myself? Step one. Sometimes we're afraid to tell ourselves the truth. Because we're afraid, oh shit, if I tell myself the truth, what's the consequence?

And so the ego, in its sneakiness, starts playing a game of confusion. Well, I'm not really sure if this relationship is right. I don't know. Maybe he can, maybe she can, maybe. We damn well know it's not right, you know? And the moment we break up, I've had this experience where I was like, is she right? Is she the one?

And so the ego, in its sneakiness, starts playing a game of confusion. Well, I'm not really sure if this relationship is right. I don't know. Maybe he can, maybe she can, maybe. We damn well know it's not right, you know? And the moment we break up, I've had this experience where I was like, is she right? Is she the one?

And so the ego, in its sneakiness, starts playing a game of confusion. Well, I'm not really sure if this relationship is right. I don't know. Maybe he can, maybe she can, maybe. We damn well know it's not right, you know? And the moment we break up, I've had this experience where I was like, is she right? Is she the one?

The moment I broke up, I told my best friend, I knew that was never going to work. My best friend asked me, well, when did you know? Literally, I remember there was a relationship I had. Literally, I met this woman in the parking lot. My intuition said, no. Stay, no. It was very subtle. And sure enough, I went on a date. We ended up in a relationship. It was the disaster. And

The moment I broke up, I told my best friend, I knew that was never going to work. My best friend asked me, well, when did you know? Literally, I remember there was a relationship I had. Literally, I met this woman in the parking lot. My intuition said, no. Stay, no. It was very subtle. And sure enough, I went on a date. We ended up in a relationship. It was the disaster. And