Kute Blackson

And then we create life that often ends up limited in some way. We're unconscious. Maybe then we begin to become a little conscious. We start questioning. Then maybe we start seeing, hmm, maybe there's a different way. And now we're going to denial, a bit more conscious denial. And so now we're living a bit more in denial.

And then we create life that often ends up limited in some way. We're unconscious. Maybe then we begin to become a little conscious. We start questioning. Then maybe we start seeing, hmm, maybe there's a different way. And now we're going to denial, a bit more conscious denial. And so now we're living a bit more in denial.

Then the next phase is we realize, hmm, maybe there's more to life than what I'm doing. Maybe there's more to me than what I've been living. Maybe who I am, you know, maybe someone listens to your podcast and they're like, maybe I'm Who I am is not who I really am. And I need to question who I am. We're afraid to question who we are because if I question who I am, then who the hell am I?

Then the next phase is we realize, hmm, maybe there's more to life than what I'm doing. Maybe there's more to me than what I've been living. Maybe who I am, you know, maybe someone listens to your podcast and they're like, maybe I'm Who I am is not who I really am. And I need to question who I am. We're afraid to question who we are because if I question who I am, then who the hell am I?

Then the next phase is we realize, hmm, maybe there's more to life than what I'm doing. Maybe there's more to me than what I've been living. Maybe who I am, you know, maybe someone listens to your podcast and they're like, maybe I'm Who I am is not who I really am. And I need to question who I am. We're afraid to question who we are because if I question who I am, then who the hell am I?

Ego freaks out, starts resisting. And so that next phase from denial is resistance. That's why we're resisting because it feels like... Who would I be if I'm not what I am and what I think I am, which is not really what I am, but like, who will I be? So resistance is a natural egoic human response, okay? It's normal, completely normal. Most of us resist our entire lives and then we die, right?

Ego freaks out, starts resisting. And so that next phase from denial is resistance. That's why we're resisting because it feels like... Who would I be if I'm not what I am and what I think I am, which is not really what I am, but like, who will I be? So resistance is a natural egoic human response, okay? It's normal, completely normal. Most of us resist our entire lives and then we die, right?

Ego freaks out, starts resisting. And so that next phase from denial is resistance. That's why we're resisting because it feels like... Who would I be if I'm not what I am and what I think I am, which is not really what I am, but like, who will I be? So resistance is a natural egoic human response, okay? It's normal, completely normal. Most of us resist our entire lives and then we die, right?

And so resistance is natural. To meet that with compassion and empathy and love is the key to melt that resistance so that we can then allow ourselves to feel some of the pain, those feelings, those emotions, the pain, the hurt, the fear, so we can start feeling those feelings and releasing those feelings

And so resistance is natural. To meet that with compassion and empathy and love is the key to melt that resistance so that we can then allow ourselves to feel some of the pain, those feelings, those emotions, the pain, the hurt, the fear, so we can start feeling those feelings and releasing those feelings

And so resistance is natural. To meet that with compassion and empathy and love is the key to melt that resistance so that we can then allow ourselves to feel some of the pain, those feelings, those emotions, the pain, the hurt, the fear, so we can start feeling those feelings and releasing those feelings

Because as we heal and release some of those feelings that we have been trained to suppress from childhood, then we no longer have to stay in ego to hold on to not feeling those feelings again. And that's where the transformational process is. That's what the transformational healing process is really about, with the therapist, with the guide, with the coach, through seminar, et cetera, et cetera.

Because as we heal and release some of those feelings that we have been trained to suppress from childhood, then we no longer have to stay in ego to hold on to not feeling those feelings again. And that's where the transformational process is. That's what the transformational healing process is really about, with the therapist, with the guide, with the coach, through seminar, et cetera, et cetera.

Because as we heal and release some of those feelings that we have been trained to suppress from childhood, then we no longer have to stay in ego to hold on to not feeling those feelings again. And that's where the transformational process is. That's what the transformational healing process is really about, with the therapist, with the guide, with the coach, through seminar, et cetera, et cetera.

So feeling those feelings. So now we're in resistance. After resisting, what we tend to do in the next phase of surrender is we start negotiating. Maybe I can... keep eating donuts in the morning and milkshakes and, you know, Big Macs and work out once a week and be healthy.

So feeling those feelings. So now we're in resistance. After resisting, what we tend to do in the next phase of surrender is we start negotiating. Maybe I can... keep eating donuts in the morning and milkshakes and, you know, Big Macs and work out once a week and be healthy.

So feeling those feelings. So now we're in resistance. After resisting, what we tend to do in the next phase of surrender is we start negotiating. Maybe I can... keep eating donuts in the morning and milkshakes and, you know, Big Macs and work out once a week and be healthy.

You know, maybe my partner, even though they're abusive and they've been like this for 10 years and it's this terrible relationship, maybe if I change, they'll change. Maybe, you know, they've got potential. So we start negotiating with life. Maybe when I'm 72, then I can finally launch that book and live my purpose. We end up negotiating our lives away, so many of us, and then we die.

You know, maybe my partner, even though they're abusive and they've been like this for 10 years and it's this terrible relationship, maybe if I change, they'll change. Maybe, you know, they've got potential. So we start negotiating with life. Maybe when I'm 72, then I can finally launch that book and live my purpose. We end up negotiating our lives away, so many of us, and then we die.

You know, maybe my partner, even though they're abusive and they've been like this for 10 years and it's this terrible relationship, maybe if I change, they'll change. Maybe, you know, they've got potential. So we start negotiating with life. Maybe when I'm 72, then I can finally launch that book and live my purpose. We end up negotiating our lives away, so many of us, and then we die.